"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What to do when she has a boyfriend?

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I’ve met one girl that I would definitely like to hook up with but she has a boyfriend. I’ve been talking to her way too much online and just generally making myself too available which will surely land me in LJBF land very soon if I don’t change what I’m doing. How should I treat her? Should I just pretend she doesn’t exist until she’s single or try something else?

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AB500

P.S. The search sucks. It doesn't let me use words under 4 letters (like b/f maybe?). I tried searching but couldn't turn up.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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combine words in the search, I'm sure that the word 'the' appears more then enough in threads, so 'b/f the' might kick something.
 
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Originally posted by AB500
P.S. The search sucks. It doesn't let me use words under 4 letters (like b/f maybe?). I tried searching but couldn't turn up.
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Dont be so lazy, goddamn. Move on with your life. Hook up with her friends and other girls.
 
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There has to be a girl equally as hott that's single. Go after her.
 
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Originally posted by Bling
There has to be a girl equally as hott that's single. Go after her.
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I'm sure there is and I never said I'm not going to continue going after other girls, I was just curious as to how I would best go after this one because she is pretty unique in the sea of pop-loving posers out there.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Man how would you like some little ***** like you going after your girlfriend? Come onn thinkkk u wouldnt like it would you.Exactly.

The only way your going to get her if ur drop dead the one of the hottest guys.. Other then that forget it.
 
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you guys are totally misleading him and destroying his confidence goddamn....give the kid a break... if shes got a boyfriend just treat her the same as any other girl... dont make yourself available and stuff of that nature.... and hust continue on treatin her like every other ho... sooner or later itll be over and youll have your chance... patience is a necessary skill
 
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I have the same situation...Ive just been trying to do my thing yunno. I think its working. Just treat as if you dont like her. Thats what Im doing.
 
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