"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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What to do when she has a boyfriend?

AB500

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I’ve met one girl that I would definitely like to hook up with but she has a boyfriend. I’ve been talking to her way too much online and just generally making myself too available which will surely land me in LJBF land very soon if I don’t change what I’m doing. How should I treat her? Should I just pretend she doesn’t exist until she’s single or try something else?

Thanks,

AB500

P.S. The search sucks. It doesn't let me use words under 4 letters (like b/f maybe?). I tried searching but couldn't turn up.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Docs

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combine words in the search, I'm sure that the word 'the' appears more then enough in threads, so 'b/f the' might kick something.
 

oakraiderz2

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Originally posted by AB500
P.S. The search sucks. It doesn't let me use words under 4 letters (like b/f maybe?). I tried searching but couldn't turn up.
Dont be so lazy, goddamn. Move on with your life. Hook up with her friends and other girls.
 

Bling

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There has to be a girl equally as hott that's single. Go after her.
 

AB500

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Originally posted by Bling
There has to be a girl equally as hott that's single. Go after her.

I'm sure there is and I never said I'm not going to continue going after other girls, I was just curious as to how I would best go after this one because she is pretty unique in the sea of pop-loving posers out there.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Phat

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Man how would you like some little ***** like you going after your girlfriend? Come onn thinkkk u wouldnt like it would you.Exactly.

The only way your going to get her if ur drop dead the one of the hottest guys.. Other then that forget it.
 

steroidsrule

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you guys are totally misleading him and destroying his confidence goddamn....give the kid a break... if shes got a boyfriend just treat her the same as any other girl... dont make yourself available and stuff of that nature.... and hust continue on treatin her like every other ho... sooner or later itll be over and youll have your chance... patience is a necessary skill
 

tyte3

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I have the same situation...Ive just been trying to do my thing yunno. I think its working. Just treat as if you dont like her. Thats what Im doing.
 
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