"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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What to do when she has a boyfriend?

AB500

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I’ve met one girl that I would definitely like to hook up with but she has a boyfriend. I’ve been talking to her way too much online and just generally making myself too available which will surely land me in LJBF land very soon if I don’t change what I’m doing. How should I treat her? Should I just pretend she doesn’t exist until she’s single or try something else?

Thanks,

AB500

P.S. The search sucks. It doesn't let me use words under 4 letters (like b/f maybe?). I tried searching but couldn't turn up.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Docs

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combine words in the search, I'm sure that the word 'the' appears more then enough in threads, so 'b/f the' might kick something.
 

oakraiderz2

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Originally posted by AB500
P.S. The search sucks. It doesn't let me use words under 4 letters (like b/f maybe?). I tried searching but couldn't turn up.
Dont be so lazy, goddamn. Move on with your life. Hook up with her friends and other girls.
 

Bling

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There has to be a girl equally as hott that's single. Go after her.
 

AB500

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Originally posted by Bling
There has to be a girl equally as hott that's single. Go after her.

I'm sure there is and I never said I'm not going to continue going after other girls, I was just curious as to how I would best go after this one because she is pretty unique in the sea of pop-loving posers out there.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Phat

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Man how would you like some little ***** like you going after your girlfriend? Come onn thinkkk u wouldnt like it would you.Exactly.

The only way your going to get her if ur drop dead the one of the hottest guys.. Other then that forget it.
 

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you guys are totally misleading him and destroying his confidence goddamn....give the kid a break... if shes got a boyfriend just treat her the same as any other girl... dont make yourself available and stuff of that nature.... and hust continue on treatin her like every other ho... sooner or later itll be over and youll have your chance... patience is a necessary skill
 

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I have the same situation...Ive just been trying to do my thing yunno. I think its working. Just treat as if you dont like her. Thats what Im doing.
 
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