"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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What to do when she has a boyfriend?

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I’ve met one girl that I would definitely like to hook up with but she has a boyfriend. I’ve been talking to her way too much online and just generally making myself too available which will surely land me in LJBF land very soon if I don’t change what I’m doing. How should I treat her? Should I just pretend she doesn’t exist until she’s single or try something else?

Thanks,

AB500

P.S. The search sucks. It doesn't let me use words under 4 letters (like b/f maybe?). I tried searching but couldn't turn up.
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

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combine words in the search, I'm sure that the word 'the' appears more then enough in threads, so 'b/f the' might kick something.
 
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Originally posted by AB500
P.S. The search sucks. It doesn't let me use words under 4 letters (like b/f maybe?). I tried searching but couldn't turn up.
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Dont be so lazy, goddamn. Move on with your life. Hook up with her friends and other girls.
 
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There has to be a girl equally as hott that's single. Go after her.
 
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Originally posted by Bling
There has to be a girl equally as hott that's single. Go after her.
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I'm sure there is and I never said I'm not going to continue going after other girls, I was just curious as to how I would best go after this one because she is pretty unique in the sea of pop-loving posers out there.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Man how would you like some little ***** like you going after your girlfriend? Come onn thinkkk u wouldnt like it would you.Exactly.

The only way your going to get her if ur drop dead the one of the hottest guys.. Other then that forget it.
 
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you guys are totally misleading him and destroying his confidence goddamn....give the kid a break... if shes got a boyfriend just treat her the same as any other girl... dont make yourself available and stuff of that nature.... and hust continue on treatin her like every other ho... sooner or later itll be over and youll have your chance... patience is a necessary skill
 
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I have the same situation...Ive just been trying to do my thing yunno. I think its working. Just treat as if you dont like her. Thats what Im doing.
 
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