"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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What to do when a net girl, comes chasing you!

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Guys, just tell me straight away what you think about this..
I'm doing the BC right, so i'm approaching anywhere i possibly can, malls, clubs, etc, and internet.
On the net this girl is head over heels for me ok, and i dont like to sound like a AFC but she's getting to me. And i'm starting to like her. Nothing wrong with that you guess? Well shes in another state. I'm not guna travel too far just to meet her no matter how well we get on. So what do you suggest i do?
I know all the cons, we haven't even met so how do u REALLY know... but its just so damn annoying cos we do get on really really well.
I still want to do the BC so i will still pull in the numbers, but IS IT WORTH not blowing her off and just doing the BC for confidence/better skills?
It's more these "feelings" i have for her which are clouding my mind.

I have my own conclusions about it but i would like to hear yours.

Advice appreciated.

Peace

Mike
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by DJ_Dork
wtf is a BC
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Do the B/C, but dont fall 4 this girl either. If she's hot enough, and you just wanna fvck, make her travel to you!
 
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Have you talked with her on the phone, or just communicated via the net?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Yep she's a hottie but thats not the reason i'm having troubles. If i just wanted a **** i would of blown her off long ago.
Her personality is what attracted me.
Yeah ive talked to her on the phone too.

Personally i was gonna make her come to me anyway if she is that determined.
Yeah feelings aside, some AFC nature still wants to get out and thats why I'm in this dilemma in the first place i recon.

*Wakes up*
I think the best thing i can do right now is focus on the BC.
Trust me every part of me has said she isn't worth **** compared to the dozens of chicks in my own city, but I just dont wanna blow of a girl ive clicked with so well...just yet.

Peace

Mike
 
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