"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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What to do when a net girl, comes chasing you!

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Guys, just tell me straight away what you think about this..
I'm doing the BC right, so i'm approaching anywhere i possibly can, malls, clubs, etc, and internet.
On the net this girl is head over heels for me ok, and i dont like to sound like a AFC but she's getting to me. And i'm starting to like her. Nothing wrong with that you guess? Well shes in another state. I'm not guna travel too far just to meet her no matter how well we get on. So what do you suggest i do?
I know all the cons, we haven't even met so how do u REALLY know... but its just so damn annoying cos we do get on really really well.
I still want to do the BC so i will still pull in the numbers, but IS IT WORTH not blowing her off and just doing the BC for confidence/better skills?
It's more these "feelings" i have for her which are clouding my mind.

I have my own conclusions about it but i would like to hear yours.

Advice appreciated.

Peace

Mike
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by DJ_Dork
wtf is a BC
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Boot Camp


Do the B/C, but dont fall 4 this girl either. If she's hot enough, and you just wanna fvck, make her travel to you!
 
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Have you talked with her on the phone, or just communicated via the net?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Yep she's a hottie but thats not the reason i'm having troubles. If i just wanted a **** i would of blown her off long ago.
Her personality is what attracted me.
Yeah ive talked to her on the phone too.

Personally i was gonna make her come to me anyway if she is that determined.
Yeah feelings aside, some AFC nature still wants to get out and thats why I'm in this dilemma in the first place i recon.

*Wakes up*
I think the best thing i can do right now is focus on the BC.
Trust me every part of me has said she isn't worth **** compared to the dozens of chicks in my own city, but I just dont wanna blow of a girl ive clicked with so well...just yet.

Peace

Mike
 
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