"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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What to do when a net girl, comes chasing you!

Mikers

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Guys, just tell me straight away what you think about this..
I'm doing the BC right, so i'm approaching anywhere i possibly can, malls, clubs, etc, and internet.
On the net this girl is head over heels for me ok, and i dont like to sound like a AFC but she's getting to me. And i'm starting to like her. Nothing wrong with that you guess? Well shes in another state. I'm not guna travel too far just to meet her no matter how well we get on. So what do you suggest i do?
I know all the cons, we haven't even met so how do u REALLY know... but its just so damn annoying cos we do get on really really well.
I still want to do the BC so i will still pull in the numbers, but IS IT WORTH not blowing her off and just doing the BC for confidence/better skills?
It's more these "feelings" i have for her which are clouding my mind.

I have my own conclusions about it but i would like to hear yours.

Advice appreciated.

Peace

Mike
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Dukester

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Originally posted by DJ_Dork
wtf is a BC
Boot Camp


Do the B/C, but dont fall 4 this girl either. If she's hot enough, and you just wanna fvck, make her travel to you!
 

NatureGuy

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Have you talked with her on the phone, or just communicated via the net?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Mikers

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Yep she's a hottie but thats not the reason i'm having troubles. If i just wanted a **** i would of blown her off long ago.
Her personality is what attracted me.
Yeah ive talked to her on the phone too.

Personally i was gonna make her come to me anyway if she is that determined.
Yeah feelings aside, some AFC nature still wants to get out and thats why I'm in this dilemma in the first place i recon.

*Wakes up*
I think the best thing i can do right now is focus on the BC.
Trust me every part of me has said she isn't worth **** compared to the dozens of chicks in my own city, but I just dont wanna blow of a girl ive clicked with so well...just yet.

Peace

Mike
 
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