So what do you do when a girl is trying to hook up with you but in the same room a guy is throwing himself at her. So heres the example that i ran into and i'm not sure if i took it the right way or not. Shes making it clearly obvious she wants me, laying against me on the couch doing lots of kino, i'm returning the kino and everything here i am taking it to the next level, but on the other side a guy is kinoing her at the same time. I guess shes nice and doesn't want to reject him or anything but she is pulling away and getting closer to me =), i dance alot with her but the other guy is dancing with her too. I get her a lil bit isolated and we kiss some (could of been sex if it was just me n her) =), so that was at least good. Hes like throwing himself at her trying to kiss everything she was pulling away like 50% of the time not kissing him or anything but not rejecting his kino... i was getitng so annoyed so i stopped returning kino, and stopped sitting by her. Eh i got a few kisses in but i wasn't sure what to do when another guy is trying extremely hard to get some, i just thought i shouldn't try at all at that point because it was obvious she wanted me. I'm thinking the AFC thing would be to throw myself at her which would prolly end up in a fist fight with the other guy but i think it would of got me laid if i just isolated! ughh its tearing me up, i should of just pulled her into a room..... But then again what do you guys think? did i do the right thing of not throwing myself at her while some other guy was doing it, in my eyes me the alpha him the beta male lol. LMK sry kinda long but it has me stumped.....
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
What to do when a girl likes you but a guy is all over her?
- Thread starter Tenzen
- Start date
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ready123
Master Don Juan
learn how to AMOG and ****block
Gangster Of Love
Master Don Juan
Couple of things:
1. Whatever you do, do not use the word "prolly" when talking to a woman, no matter how dumb she is.
2. You don't mention who this other guy was, or the context of you your interactions and the place you were at, but you could have just turned to her and said, "Are you ready to leave?", she would have caught on and he would have thought you two came together. Then you could just go outside adn talk, or roll to some other place together.
3. YOu should have gotten the number (if you didn't already have it), and left while ahead.
1. Whatever you do, do not use the word "prolly" when talking to a woman, no matter how dumb she is.
2. You don't mention who this other guy was, or the context of you your interactions and the place you were at, but you could have just turned to her and said, "Are you ready to leave?", she would have caught on and he would have thought you two came together. Then you could just go outside adn talk, or roll to some other place together.
3. YOu should have gotten the number (if you didn't already have it), and left while ahead.
Gangster Of Love
Master Don Juan
Where exactly was the brother at?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
ready123
Master Don Juan
they're already kissing and she wants to fvck so a # close is regression, not a step forward. and if he calls her later, the energy might not be the same
all he needed was isolation, which he would have gotten if he AMOG'd the guy
AMOG = other guy feels like a herb and runs away = isolation
voila!
all he needed was isolation, which he would have gotten if he AMOG'd the guy
AMOG = other guy feels like a herb and runs away = isolation
voila!
Gangster Of Love
Master Don Juan
Isolation???? LoL. Not in this case, under that same roof.
The phone number suggestion, I gave it to him before he mentioned the setting, the location, etc. of the current situation.
Not in the same household. That chump wasn't about to go away without making sure everyone knew the girl was getting it on.
He needed to just tell her "let's go to 7-eleven." or whatver, and get her out of the house.
The phone number suggestion, I gave it to him before he mentioned the setting, the location, etc. of the current situation.
Not in the same household. That chump wasn't about to go away without making sure everyone knew the girl was getting it on.
He needed to just tell her "let's go to 7-eleven." or whatver, and get her out of the house.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
All you had to do was isolate and kiss her a little. That should be enough to give the other guy the picture.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
i kissed her right in front of him.. he didn't get the picture..... he was like oo wow whats with that kiss.... I know i'm making progress because i'm always running into new situations that can be solved by coming here lol. I'm not sure how i would isolate her in her own house, when i didn't even know where her room was. Any tips on how to get the girl to leave the party and get her into her own room?
Interceptor
Master Don Juan
Take her hand and walk outside.
ready123
Master Don Juan
the point is just to get rid of the guy and isolate so you can escalate on the girl
you can get rid of the guy either by AMOG-ing him or by leaving the party
or pulling her to the bathroom and locking the door
you can get rid of the guy either by AMOG-ing him or by leaving the party
or pulling her to the bathroom and locking the door