"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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What to do when a girl likes you but a guy is all over her?

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So what do you do when a girl is trying to hook up with you but in the same room a guy is throwing himself at her. So heres the example that i ran into and i'm not sure if i took it the right way or not. Shes making it clearly obvious she wants me, laying against me on the couch doing lots of kino, i'm returning the kino and everything here i am taking it to the next level, but on the other side a guy is kinoing her at the same time. I guess shes nice and doesn't want to reject him or anything but she is pulling away and getting closer to me =), i dance alot with her but the other guy is dancing with her too. I get her a lil bit isolated and we kiss some (could of been sex if it was just me n her) =), so that was at least good. Hes like throwing himself at her trying to kiss everything she was pulling away like 50% of the time not kissing him or anything but not rejecting his kino... i was getitng so annoyed so i stopped returning kino, and stopped sitting by her. Eh i got a few kisses in but i wasn't sure what to do when another guy is trying extremely hard to get some, i just thought i shouldn't try at all at that point because it was obvious she wanted me. I'm thinking the AFC thing would be to throw myself at her which would prolly end up in a fist fight with the other guy but i think it would of got me laid if i just isolated! ughh its tearing me up, i should of just pulled her into a room..... But then again what do you guys think? did i do the right thing of not throwing myself at her while some other guy was doing it, in my eyes me the alpha him the beta male lol. LMK sry kinda long but it has me stumped.....
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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learn how to AMOG and ****block
 

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Couple of things:

1. Whatever you do, do not use the word "prolly" when talking to a woman, no matter how dumb she is.

2. You don't mention who this other guy was, or the context of you your interactions and the place you were at, but you could have just turned to her and said, "Are you ready to leave?", she would have caught on and he would have thought you two came together. Then you could just go outside adn talk, or roll to some other place together.

3. YOu should have gotten the number (if you didn't already have it), and left while ahead.
 

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the guy was her brothers friend and he was sleeping over, so they knew each other alot more then me knowing her. I already got her number and this was the first time hanged out with her at her house.
 

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Where exactly was the brother at?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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sleeping, it was me,her,the guy, and another friend that was just spacing out....
 

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they're already kissing and she wants to fvck so a # close is regression, not a step forward. and if he calls her later, the energy might not be the same

all he needed was isolation, which he would have gotten if he AMOG'd the guy

AMOG = other guy feels like a herb and runs away = isolation

voila!
 

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Isolation???? LoL. Not in this case, under that same roof.

The phone number suggestion, I gave it to him before he mentioned the setting, the location, etc. of the current situation.

Not in the same household. That chump wasn't about to go away without making sure everyone knew the girl was getting it on.

He needed to just tell her "let's go to 7-eleven." or whatver, and get her out of the house.
 

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lol, we were drinking, i was pretty intoxicated at the time, she puked later that night, also it was 7~8 am she invited me over at 6 am hahah! sunday morning
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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i kissed her right in front of him.. he didn't get the picture..... he was like oo wow whats with that kiss.... I know i'm making progress because i'm always running into new situations that can be solved by coming here lol. I'm not sure how i would isolate her in her own house, when i didn't even know where her room was. Any tips on how to get the girl to leave the party and get her into her own room?
 

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Take her hand and walk outside.
 

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the point is just to get rid of the guy and isolate so you can escalate on the girl

you can get rid of the guy either by AMOG-ing him or by leaving the party

or pulling her to the bathroom and locking the door
 
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