So what do you do when a girl is trying to hook up with you but in the same room a guy is throwing himself at her. So heres the example that i ran into and i'm not sure if i took it the right way or not. Shes making it clearly obvious she wants me, laying against me on the couch doing lots of kino, i'm returning the kino and everything here i am taking it to the next level, but on the other side a guy is kinoing her at the same time. I guess shes nice and doesn't want to reject him or anything but she is pulling away and getting closer to me =), i dance alot with her but the other guy is dancing with her too. I get her a lil bit isolated and we kiss some (could of been sex if it was just me n her) =), so that was at least good. Hes like throwing himself at her trying to kiss everything she was pulling away like 50% of the time not kissing him or anything but not rejecting his kino... i was getitng so annoyed so i stopped returning kino, and stopped sitting by her. Eh i got a few kisses in but i wasn't sure what to do when another guy is trying extremely hard to get some, i just thought i shouldn't try at all at that point because it was obvious she wanted me. I'm thinking the AFC thing would be to throw myself at her which would prolly end up in a fist fight with the other guy but i think it would of got me laid if i just isolated! ughh its tearing me up, i should of just pulled her into a room..... But then again what do you guys think? did i do the right thing of not throwing myself at her while some other guy was doing it, in my eyes me the alpha him the beta male lol. LMK sry kinda long but it has me stumped.....
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
What to do when a girl likes you but a guy is all over her?
- Thread starter Tenzen
- Start date
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
ready123
Master Don Juan
learn how to AMOG and ****block
Gangster Of Love
Master Don Juan
Couple of things:
1. Whatever you do, do not use the word "prolly" when talking to a woman, no matter how dumb she is.
2. You don't mention who this other guy was, or the context of you your interactions and the place you were at, but you could have just turned to her and said, "Are you ready to leave?", she would have caught on and he would have thought you two came together. Then you could just go outside adn talk, or roll to some other place together.
3. YOu should have gotten the number (if you didn't already have it), and left while ahead.
1. Whatever you do, do not use the word "prolly" when talking to a woman, no matter how dumb she is.
2. You don't mention who this other guy was, or the context of you your interactions and the place you were at, but you could have just turned to her and said, "Are you ready to leave?", she would have caught on and he would have thought you two came together. Then you could just go outside adn talk, or roll to some other place together.
3. YOu should have gotten the number (if you didn't already have it), and left while ahead.
Gangster Of Love
Master Don Juan
Where exactly was the brother at?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
ready123
Master Don Juan
they're already kissing and she wants to fvck so a # close is regression, not a step forward. and if he calls her later, the energy might not be the same
all he needed was isolation, which he would have gotten if he AMOG'd the guy
AMOG = other guy feels like a herb and runs away = isolation
voila!
all he needed was isolation, which he would have gotten if he AMOG'd the guy
AMOG = other guy feels like a herb and runs away = isolation
voila!
Gangster Of Love
Master Don Juan
Isolation???? LoL. Not in this case, under that same roof.
The phone number suggestion, I gave it to him before he mentioned the setting, the location, etc. of the current situation.
Not in the same household. That chump wasn't about to go away without making sure everyone knew the girl was getting it on.
He needed to just tell her "let's go to 7-eleven." or whatver, and get her out of the house.
The phone number suggestion, I gave it to him before he mentioned the setting, the location, etc. of the current situation.
Not in the same household. That chump wasn't about to go away without making sure everyone knew the girl was getting it on.
He needed to just tell her "let's go to 7-eleven." or whatver, and get her out of the house.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
All you had to do was isolate and kiss her a little. That should be enough to give the other guy the picture.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
i kissed her right in front of him.. he didn't get the picture..... he was like oo wow whats with that kiss.... I know i'm making progress because i'm always running into new situations that can be solved by coming here lol. I'm not sure how i would isolate her in her own house, when i didn't even know where her room was. Any tips on how to get the girl to leave the party and get her into her own room?
Interceptor
Master Don Juan
Take her hand and walk outside.
ready123
Master Don Juan
the point is just to get rid of the guy and isolate so you can escalate on the girl
you can get rid of the guy either by AMOG-ing him or by leaving the party
or pulling her to the bathroom and locking the door
you can get rid of the guy either by AMOG-ing him or by leaving the party
or pulling her to the bathroom and locking the door