"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What to do, What to do?

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BringUrGreenHat

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Well my ex-girlfriend (10 to me anyway) is having troubles with her new boyfriend. So she's been getting real close to me again in the past week. Now, If she asks to start a relationship again I plan on telling her hell no... but, would it be a good idea to mess around with her, i mean y not get some action with a 10 when you know you can? or should i not... im confused hah
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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JSH

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come on, why did you break up, if you broke up with her - there was a reason, stick to it. If she broke up with you - ur over her and can live without her. If you drifted apart - mucking around cant have been that much fun.

Dont screw up some guys life (even if he AFC) and secondly dont screw up your own. Im figurin 10= worse and 0=best in your scale
 
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If she left you for her new boyfriend, then do NOT let her use you as a backup when they're having problems.
 
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*Sigh*....
 
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