"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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What to do, What to do?

BringUrGreenHat

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Well my ex-girlfriend (10 to me anyway) is having troubles with her new boyfriend. So she's been getting real close to me again in the past week. Now, If she asks to start a relationship again I plan on telling her hell no... but, would it be a good idea to mess around with her, i mean y not get some action with a 10 when you know you can? or should i not... im confused hah
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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JSH

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come on, why did you break up, if you broke up with her - there was a reason, stick to it. If she broke up with you - ur over her and can live without her. If you drifted apart - mucking around cant have been that much fun.

Dont screw up some guys life (even if he AFC) and secondly dont screw up your own. Im figurin 10= worse and 0=best in your scale
 

dbot

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If she left you for her new boyfriend, then do NOT let her use you as a backup when they're having problems.
 
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tactic

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*Sigh*....
 
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