"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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BringUrGreenHat

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Well my ex-girlfriend (10 to me anyway) is having troubles with her new boyfriend. So she's been getting real close to me again in the past week. Now, If she asks to start a relationship again I plan on telling her hell no... but, would it be a good idea to mess around with her, i mean y not get some action with a 10 when you know you can? or should i not... im confused hah
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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come on, why did you break up, if you broke up with her - there was a reason, stick to it. If she broke up with you - ur over her and can live without her. If you drifted apart - mucking around cant have been that much fun.

Dont screw up some guys life (even if he AFC) and secondly dont screw up your own. Im figurin 10= worse and 0=best in your scale
 
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If she left you for her new boyfriend, then do NOT let her use you as a backup when they're having problems.
 
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*Sigh*....
 
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