"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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What to do, What to do?

BringUrGreenHat

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Well my ex-girlfriend (10 to me anyway) is having troubles with her new boyfriend. So she's been getting real close to me again in the past week. Now, If she asks to start a relationship again I plan on telling her hell no... but, would it be a good idea to mess around with her, i mean y not get some action with a 10 when you know you can? or should i not... im confused hah
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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JSH

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come on, why did you break up, if you broke up with her - there was a reason, stick to it. If she broke up with you - ur over her and can live without her. If you drifted apart - mucking around cant have been that much fun.

Dont screw up some guys life (even if he AFC) and secondly dont screw up your own. Im figurin 10= worse and 0=best in your scale
 

dbot

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If she left you for her new boyfriend, then do NOT let her use you as a backup when they're having problems.
 
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*Sigh*....
 
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