"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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What to do, What to do?

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Well my ex-girlfriend (10 to me anyway) is having troubles with her new boyfriend. So she's been getting real close to me again in the past week. Now, If she asks to start a relationship again I plan on telling her hell no... but, would it be a good idea to mess around with her, i mean y not get some action with a 10 when you know you can? or should i not... im confused hah
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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come on, why did you break up, if you broke up with her - there was a reason, stick to it. If she broke up with you - ur over her and can live without her. If you drifted apart - mucking around cant have been that much fun.

Dont screw up some guys life (even if he AFC) and secondly dont screw up your own. Im figurin 10= worse and 0=best in your scale
 
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If she left you for her new boyfriend, then do NOT let her use you as a backup when they're having problems.
 
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*Sigh*....
 
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