"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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What to do if you can't go to the gym for three weeks

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Due to the Corona virus, all gyms in my country are closed for at least three weeks. I can't even go to a shop to buy weights as they've been closed as well.

I've been making some great progress lately and dread the fact that it will all go to waste, so I would like to minimize the losses.

- Looking for programs that use your bodyweight to maintain your current mass as much as possible
- Diet advice (probably a lot of protein)
- No cardio?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Do bodyweight stuff like push ups with a backpack full of heavy stuff, squats, dips etc, find anything heavy around the home you can use to replicate weights, paint cans, tool boxes, anything really. Something you can do pull ups on.

And don't worry too much, look at shows like survivor, people go on that for 6 weeks living off beans and rice and sure they lose some gains but not ALL of them.

3 weeks with good nutrition and doing as much bodyweight stuff as you can, honestly you might take a week to catch up when you get back.
 

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Do bodyweight stuff like push ups with a backpack full of heavy stuff, squats, dips etc, find anything heavy around the home you can use to replicate weights, paint cans, tool boxes, anything really. Something you can do pull ups on.

And don't worry too much, look at shows like survivor, people go on that for 6 weeks living off beans and rice and sure they lose some gains but not ALL of them.

3 weeks with good nutrition and doing as much bodyweight stuff as you can, honestly you might take a week to catch up when you get back.
Should I still go to the gym with coronavirus going on? Or should I only do push-ups and cardio until it rolls over?
 

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Should I still go to the gym with coronavirus going on? Or should I only do push-ups and cardio until it rolls over?
Use common sense id say, are there any cases in your area, are there likely to be?

Over here we have only had 5 cases, all hundreds of miles away and no new cases in almost a week, so I'm going to be going to the gym. If we get cases here I probably won't go.
 

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If you train hard regularly you’ll lose minimal strength in three weeks with good nutrition. I take two five-week breaks per year. The body absolutely loves it.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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good nutrition, proper diet, home exercises, and self-discipline can really make a difference!
 

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At this point, it really depends on who you are and how well you're trained
 

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An awesome idea to workout your legs is to get a friend on your back, then start squatting. That's at least 135-225lb of weight there. Helps if you got a roommate that's into fitness.

Get a pullup bar asap. Your home workout programme is going to be heavily based on pushups and pullups, and you can't do pullups without a pullup bar.

Look up prison workouts. Prison inmates are by far the most innovative in coming up with ways to workout. Makes sense since they spend most of their time in a cell with no access to a gym.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Rope pullups are even better. Knotted dog toy ropes work well to throw over a bar. Rope pullups are much easier on the elbows and joints. Typically it cuts your max by 50 percent, bc they are harder to do.
 

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This is temporary. If you're in shape, you can get by with running or bike riding outdoors and weighted push ups.
In shape but cant go out. Cant buy a pullup bar so my current routine is 100x push ups and 100x tricep dips. not sure how effective it is.

Look up prison workouts. Prison inmates are by far the most innovative in coming up with ways to workout. Makes sense since they spend most of their time in a cell with no access to a gym.
:up:
 

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A Pull Up bar and a wall is all you need.
So Pull Ups and if you are strong enough, handstand push-ups or/and regular ones.
Legs might fall a bit behind but that's no big deal. When you ll go back to the gym your upper body will be stronger and healthier, legs will catch up in no time.
 

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Im im shape 200 lbs 6ft, i just watch my calories and some abs workout atm. Relax
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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do some basic steps using anything around your house that can help you motivate yourself in doing exercise that has a lot of benefits with your health.
 

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just do something at home, I know it sucks, but still better than doing nothing
 

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It's a good time to cut.
Protein max - 220 g everyday
Bodyweight exercises ftw.

As suggested by another poster, I stuffed my backpack with bricks - 50 pounds, for all exercises.

20x4 - pushups
20x4 - squats
20x4 - crunches

10x4 - bicep curls
10x4 - tricep extension

HIIT sprint x jog, 30s, 1m

Combine with keto and intermittent fasting.

No carbs at night, egg protein for slow digestion.

Creatine monohydrate 30 m before workout, add banana for insulin spike.

Complex carbs after workout with whey.

Add omegas, multi, zinc supplement and Tribulus Terrestris for libido.

Get resistance bands if you can. I'm still looking for a set.
 

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From what I understand cardio that isn't high intensity tends to make you lose lean muscle mass, while HI cardio minimizes the losses, you could run for an hour or burn the same amount of calories in minutes or even potentially seconds.

I would stretch and do HIC, just find a hill and blast up and down it until your depleted
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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