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What the redpill got wrong

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Well, men are so feminized today that they think they can only get one woman. When they land her, they do everything to keep this woman. But if men grew some balls, and said no to a girl that had sex with 30+ guys then their attitude would change because they couldn't get away with it.
 

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I’m sorry bro but this is the biggest load of bull**** I’ve ever heard. Women from the times before couldn’t afford to **** around like that because it meant that they’d have to carry a baby for 9 months. There’s also the fact that all throughout history there have never really been polyandrous societies, but polygynous ones were very common. You got it all twisted and wrong. There’s so many other factors I could point out right now that would further **** on this idea but it’s just not worth it lol just know that women were meant for one man only.
 

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Women suck at playing the long game. They don’t realize that when they lose their only strategy (looks) they lose it ALL. Some continue to try to play the games they always knew but they can no longer get away with it. Why do you think the cat adoption and wine industry is so popular? Why do you think the feminist movement promotes “strong and INDEPENDANT women”? Because they’re alone as fvck. A man can be alone and be happy, women can’t. That abundance they once enjoyed is gone forever and they waited too long to choose one man to settle down with.
There are two types of attractive women. Knowing which is which will lead to solid investments in the future. The first type is the type that thinks she's the hottest thing since swiss cheese. This type often uses up her looks the way spoiled brats use up their inheritance money.

The second type continues to invest in her looks and fitness into old age.

One seeks external validation to boost her ego. (This is like 90% of hot chicks). These types are needy (female version of neediness is like entitlement that needs 100 orbiters to validate them), and the other is self contained.

The self-contained attractive woman doesn't need anyone's approval and she just goes about her business maintaining her smv (top 10% of women). These women can often be found in yoga clubs/health and fitness centers on weekend nights instead of the bars/clubs.

The ones who give value to themselves instead of spending the value they were born with always look happier and healthier. Some of them even glow feminine radiance.
 
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Dont women file for divorce more than men? I mean yes it could mean the men are cheating but also could mean she wants to open her legs elsewhere. I truly believe my ex didn’t like hearing the word No so found a guy she’d never have to hear it from again. Quick to roll out.
 

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One of the premises of the redpill is that a mans mating strategy is to spread his seed with as women as possible, while a womans strategy is to pair bond with one mate

I actually believe the total opposite is true

Men are more likely to want to pair bond because it gives them a constant access to sex and ensures their genes survival. When relationships break down they hit men tremendously hard for this reason

Women on the hand are naturally flirty with everyone and sexually flexible, spinning plates comes naturally to them, they don't have to learn how to do it. When a womans relationship breaks down, she is rarely hurt but instead single and ready to "mingle"

I don't believe women catch oneitis nearly as much as men do. They are enamored by the top guys yes, but I don't think they love them

I also believe this is the reason women don't like clingy guys and instead go for indifferent guys, because they always want the freedom to swing from branch to branch
I can't be bothered to listen to trp. A bunch of married dudes delusional in their head about still having it. They last approached via social circle. Rollo just rants on hours. I see them as a cash grab. The market is bachelors. I like Aaron Clarey but even he sees guys failing and no hot wife.

I think that its birth control, government edu, and the CC for decades is rotting her brain. Again, i subscribe to the Aaron Clarey enjoy the decline fellas.
 

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You just have to look who is working harder for sex and who is paying more for sex. Who is watching more porn? Who has the higher sex drive?

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Men masturbate more than women, much more. Masturbation is considered by sex researchers to be one of the purest measures of sex drive because it is not much constrained by external factors (such as the need to find a partner or the risk of pregnancy or disease). Some people say that women feel guilty about masturbation, but that's not what the data say, at least not anymore.


In fact, it's mainly the (few) nonmasturbating men who associated masturbation with guilt. Nonmasturbating women generally say they just don't feel any inclination to do it. They don't need guilt to resist the impulse, because they aren't resisting, because they don't have the impulse.

There's plenty more. Men take more risks and incur more costs for sex. (Remember President Clinton.) Men want sex more often than women, whether one is talking about young couples or people who have been married to the same person for 40 years. Men also want more different partners than women want, and men like a greater variety of sex acts than women do.


Men initiate sex often and refuse it rarely. Women initiate it much more rarely and refuse it much more often than men. Given an opportunity for sex, men leap at it, while women say no. One classic study sent student research assistants out on campus to approach fairly attractive people (of the other gender) at random with the line, "I've been noticing you around campus and I think you're attractive. Would you like to go to bed with me tonight?" More than three-quarters of the men said yes. Not a single woman did."

 

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You just have to look who is working harder for sex and who is paying more for sex. Who is watching more porn? Who has the higher sex drive?

Men are sex slaves I mean slave to sex. :)

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Men masturbate more than women, much more. Masturbation is considered by sex researchers to be one of the purest measures of sex drive because it is not much constrained by external factors (such as the need to find a partner or the risk of pregnancy or disease). Some people say that women feel guilty about masturbation, but that's not what the data say, at least not anymore.


In fact, it's mainly the (few) nonmasturbating men who associated masturbation with guilt. Nonmasturbating women generally say they just don't feel any inclination to do it. They don't need guilt to resist the impulse, because they aren't resisting, because they don't have the impulse.

There's plenty more. Men take more risks and incur more costs for sex. (Remember President Clinton.) Men want sex more often than women, whether one is talking about young couples or people who have been married to the same person for 40 years. Men also want more different partners than women want, and men like a greater variety of sex acts than women do.


Men initiate sex often and refuse it rarely. Women initiate it much more rarely and refuse it much more often than men. Given an opportunity for sex, men leap at it, while women say no. One classic study sent student research assistants out on campus to approach fairly attractive people (of the other gender) at random with the line, "I've been noticing you around campus and I think you're attractive. Would you like to go to bed with me tonight?" More than three-quarters of the men said yes. Not a single woman did."

 

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I disagree in part. I think if most men had their druthers they'd bang a new attractive woman whenever they could. But if most women had their way they'd find their perfect man sooner than later and start popping out kids.

I do think you're right about women and oneitis. They have a more natural sense of abundance and know when to move on better. Men catch oneitis usually due to lack of options above all else.

As for women wanting indifferent men, this is an old saw, they don't ever want the guy to be 100% taken with her. If he gives her a little competition anxiety, she won't feel the need to branch swing.
Women have "abundance mindset" because they are literally living in abundance in the West, surrounded by thirsty cucked blue-pill-poossy-beggars.

Move your oneitis-ass to Manila and we will soon see who's getting the Oneitis (hint: not the men).

It's a basic supply and demand issue.

The issue of Oneitis male faggotry in the West is solely a male problem. Men need to start governing and shaming poossy-begging, which lowers the value of all men.

Did Genghis Khan ever suffer from Oneitis? I think not.
 

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Women have "abundance mindset" because they are literally living in abundance in the West, surrounded by thirsty cucked blue-pill-poossy-beggars.

Move your oneitis-ass to Manila and we will soon see who's getting the Oneitis (hint: not the men).

It's a basic supply and demand issue.

The issue of Oneitis male faggotry in the West is solely a male problem. Men need to start governing and shaming poossy-begging, which lowers the value of all men.

Did Genghis Khan ever suffer from Oneitis? I think not.
I am not shure if men want to risk that much anymore for sex. There is too much distraction there.

The one who do get a lot of sex I guess. Not much less than in the past I guess. It was always not easy.
 

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The issue of Oneitis male faggotry in the West is solely a male problem. Men need to start governing and shaming poossy-begging, which lowers the value of all men.

Did Genghis Khan ever suffer from Oneitis? I think not.
Then how come marriage and life long partnerships are prevalent everywhere else in the world?

The West is the only place where men are encouraged NOT to have oneitis. It's openly practiced everywhere else

You wanna talk begging? If you are a girl walking down the streets of India, Italy or Nigeria... they will literally throw wedding rings at you

But everyone in redpill acts like its the white mans fault. There's something wrong with the white man and the west. Never the women.

I'm not buying it
 

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Then how come marriage and life long partnerships are prevalent everywhere else in the world?

The West is the only place where men are encouraged NOT to have oneitis. It's openly practiced everywhere else

You wanna talk begging? If you are a girl walking down the streets of India, Italy or Nigeria... they will literally throw wedding rings at you

But everyone in redpill acts like its the white mans fault. There's something wrong with the white man and the west. Never the women.

I'm not buying it
In the Middle East and Africa you can have as many wives as you want. Women in Africa exchange sex for a pint of milk (because the price of sex is so low).

The issue in the West is that we have masculine-ised women, and feminised men to the point where both sexes are thoroughly repulsed by each other. This was socially-engineered and done on purpose to create a society of anxious and unfulfilled consumers in the West - it's good for business.

When a woman is in pursuit of a man, this is where the healthiest dynamic of attraction lies. Men love being pursued by women, and women are repulsed when a man is in pursuit of them. We have it asss-backwards in the West. Women get extremely turned-on when they are in an anxious and uncertain state of not being able to tie down the man they are in pursuit of. It is what they truly want (which is why the aloof badboy always wins the day).
 

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In the Middle East and Africa you can have as many wives as you want. Women in Africa exchange sex for a pint of milk (because the price of sex is so low).

The issue in the West is that we have masculine-ised women, and feminised men to the point where both sexes are thoroughly repulsed by each other. This was socially-engineered and done on purpose to create a society of anxious and unfulfilled consumers in the West - it's good for business.

When a woman is in pursuit of a man, this is where the healthiest dynamic of attraction lies. Men love being pursued by women, and women are repulsed when a man is in pursuit of them. We have it asss-backwards in the West. Women get extremely turned-on when they are in an anxious and uncertain state of not being able to tie down the man they are in pursuit of. It is what they truly want (which is why the aloof badboy always wins the day).
Fair points

But your great great great grandfather wasn't out fvcking as women as he could. He probably met a girl at the age of 16 and settled down with her for life. This is what still goes on in large parts of the world

Some men did see prostitutes and mistresses. But the idea of a oneitis was always there. They were the mothers who gave us legitimate and non-bastardized children

Feminism has allowed women the freedom to act as they please too. And the results have been 80% divorce rate, rampant single motherhood, kids by different fathers, multiple sexual partners, plate spinning and branch swinging

It's been total chaos
 

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Fair points

But your great great great grandfather wasn't out fvcking as women as he could. He probably met a girl at the age of 16 and settled down with her for life. This is what still goes on in large parts of the world

Some men did see prostitutes and mistresses. But the idea of a oneitis was always there. They were the mothers who gave us legitimate and non-bastardized children

Feminism has allowed women the freedom to act as they please too. And the results have been 80% divorce rate, rampant single motherhood, kids by different fathers, multiple sexual partners, plate spinning and branch swinging

It's been total chaos
Pair bonding with a 16 year old virgin is a good deal for the man, and a good deal for the woman - this isn't oneitis. This is a life long pair-bond potential (as long as society has the necessary institutions to support it - monogamy supported and cheating and divorce is shamed). Oneitis is when a b!tch dumps you and you can't move on, or you're with a b!tch and she treats you like crap (which is usually proceeded by her dumping you or cucking you).

A pair-bonded couple where the virgin is enthralled to her man, and the man nurtures his virgin, is not Oneitis. It's how civilisation was built.
 

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Coolidge effect. The Coolidge effect is a biological phenomenon seen in animals, whereby males exhibit renewed sexual interest whenever a new female is introduced to have sex with, even after cessation of sex with prior but still available sexual partners.

Coolidge effect - Wikipedia
 

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Coolidge effect. The Coolidge effect is a biological phenomenon seen in animals, whereby males exhibit renewed sexual interest whenever a new female is introduced to have sex with, even after cessation of sex with prior but still available sexual partners.
Coolidge effect - Wikipedia
thanks for reference-any other references besides wikipedia(I see wikipedia as I see urban dictionary)?
 

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thanks for reference-any other references besides wikipedia(I see wikipedia as I see urban dictionary)?
The Coolidge effect is the renewal of sexual behavior after the presentation of a novel sexual partner and possibly occurs as the result of habituation and dishabituation processes. This re-motivation to copulate is well studied in males and is commonly related to sexual satiety, which involves several neurobiological changes in steroid receptors and their mRNA expression in the CNS. On the other hand, there are few reports studying sexual novelty in females and have been limited to behavioral aspects.

 

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Fair points

But your great great great grandfather wasn't out fvcking as women as he could. He probably met a girl at the age of 16 and settled down with her for life. This is what still goes on in large parts of the world

Some men did see prostitutes and mistresses. But the idea of a oneitis was always there. They were the mothers who gave us legitimate and non-bastardized children

Feminism has allowed women the freedom to act as they please too. And the results have been 80% divorce rate, rampant single motherhood, kids by different fathers, multiple sexual partners, plate spinning and branch swinging

It's been total chaos
There is no doubt most of us can agree the status quo in America is not working very well.
Personally i would love to see feminism destroyed and woman actually become healthy contributors to society again. As the feminine counter part balance as @Spaz Clearly placed in one of his posts
If this doesnt happen this model of equality as the lie will get even worse.
 

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Dont women file for divorce more than men? I mean yes it could mean the men are cheating but also could mean she wants to open her legs elsewhere. I truly believe my ex didn’t like hearing the word No so found a guy she’d never have to hear it from again. Quick to roll out.
This is a societal condition. She has that option today and no doubt about it if she was more dependent on you for survival that may have been a different outcome.
The west has taken all accountability away for women mostly few exceptions and there are many factors at play here.
Lawyer speak and courts are just 1 of those.
Feminism another. Sex another, advertisement sales another, etc etc
 
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