"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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What the hell?!

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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WaterTiger

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Why was he banned??? I like him!

FREE KARMA SUTRA!!!!!!!!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Phyzzle

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Say, what happened, Karma? You were banned and unbanned? Was this all just a bad dream?
 

howardalex

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I want to be a player just got banned...wtf's going on here :S
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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CCKazi007

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Docs said:
Why is KarmaSutra banned? :box::box:

I'm calling lies!
Because he's a troll! Mods did their job by banning him. Have you read his cigar 101 thread? he tried to brainwash people in thinking that cigar smoking was HEALTHY AND COOL.
 

CCKazi007

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Docs said:
Kazi, you're a noob. I'm not even going to explain the reasons, it'd be useless. Smoke the ignore button.
Don't worry b*tch your already on my ignore list with kama sutra. Your a troll yourself posting 5+ everyday. I'm a noob? WTF lol I'm SO OFFENDED. Well I'm not gonna waste my time with you cuz I know I'm better than you. I like how you had to put in that I'm on YOUR ignore list well I really don't care, go back to your ugly girlfriend. :crackup:
 

penkitten

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Kev07 said:
nothing wrong with cigar smoking, seeing as how it shouldn't be addictive, it has about the same amount of badness as marijuana (which isn't that much)
except with the badness factor that marijuana is illegal and cigar smoking is not illegal.

how many noobs start threads about marijuana and if it hurts their game not to be drinking? those threads are just as bad.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Vulpine

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Docs said:
Kazi, you're a noob. Smoke the ignore button.
:crackup:
LMFAO!
:cheer:

:rockon:
 
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