Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
That's a REALLY good question.Docs said:
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Because he's a troll! Mods did their job by banning him. Have you read his cigar 101 thread? he tried to brainwash people in thinking that cigar smoking was HEALTHY AND COOL.Docs said:
Don't worry b*tch your already on my ignore list with kama sutra. Your a troll yourself posting 5+ everyday. I'm a noob? WTF lol I'm SO OFFENDED. Well I'm not gonna waste my time with you cuz I know I'm better than you. I like how you had to put in that I'm on YOUR ignore list well I really don't care, go back to your ugly girlfriend. :crackup:Docs said:Kazi, you're a noob. I'm not even going to explain the reasons, it'd be useless. Smoke the ignore button.
except with the badness factor that marijuana is illegal and cigar smoking is not illegal.Kev07 said:nothing wrong with cigar smoking, seeing as how it shouldn't be addictive, it has about the same amount of badness as marijuana (which isn't that much)
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
:crackup:Docs said:Kazi, you're a noob. Smoke the ignore button.