"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
What the hell?!
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
WaterTiger
Master Don Juan
Why was he banned??? I like him!
FREE KARMA SUTRA!!!!!!!!
FREE KARMA SUTRA!!!!!!!!
Precursor
Don Juan
Oh no!! Who's gonna tell me how to shave my pubic hair!!!
I Want To Be a Playa
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they found out he was the troll who was impersonating people and was el febreezey and martin shernwood
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I Want To Be a Playa
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well DJdommage just got banned too
ValleyDJing
Master Don Juan
I thought he left anyways.
howardalex
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I want to be a player just got banned...wtf's going on here :S
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Docs
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Kazi, you're a noob. I'm not even going to explain the reasons, it'd be useless. Smoke the ignore button.
Don't worry b*tch your already on my ignore list with kama sutra. Your a troll yourself posting 5+ everyday. I'm a noob? WTF lol I'm SO OFFENDED. Well I'm not gonna waste my time with you cuz I know I'm better than you. I like how you had to put in that I'm on YOUR ignore list well I really don't care, go back to your ugly girlfriend. :crackup:Docs said:
Kev07
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nothing wrong with cigar smoking, seeing as how it shouldn't be addictive, it has about the same amount of badness as marijuana (which isn't that much)
penkitten
Master Don Juan
except with the badness factor that marijuana is illegal and cigar smoking is not illegal.Kev07 said:
how many noobs start threads about marijuana and if it hurts their game not to be drinking? those threads are just as bad.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Vulpine
Master Don Juan
:crackup:Docs said:
LMFAO!
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