"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
What the hell?!
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
WaterTiger
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Why was he banned??? I like him!
FREE KARMA SUTRA!!!!!!!!
FREE KARMA SUTRA!!!!!!!!
Precursor
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Oh no!! Who's gonna tell me how to shave my pubic hair!!!
I Want To Be a Playa
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they found out he was the troll who was impersonating people and was el febreezey and martin shernwood
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I Want To Be a Playa
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well DJdommage just got banned too
ValleyDJing
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I thought he left anyways.
howardalex
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I want to be a player just got banned...wtf's going on here :S
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Docs
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Kazi, you're a noob. I'm not even going to explain the reasons, it'd be useless. Smoke the ignore button.
Don't worry b*tch your already on my ignore list with kama sutra. Your a troll yourself posting 5+ everyday. I'm a noob? WTF lol I'm SO OFFENDED. Well I'm not gonna waste my time with you cuz I know I'm better than you. I like how you had to put in that I'm on YOUR ignore list well I really don't care, go back to your ugly girlfriend. :crackup:Docs said:
Kev07
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nothing wrong with cigar smoking, seeing as how it shouldn't be addictive, it has about the same amount of badness as marijuana (which isn't that much)
penkitten
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except with the badness factor that marijuana is illegal and cigar smoking is not illegal.Kev07 said:
how many noobs start threads about marijuana and if it hurts their game not to be drinking? those threads are just as bad.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Vulpine
Master Don Juan
:crackup:Docs said:
LMFAO!
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