She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
What the hell is wrong with your friend for dating her?Crissco said:
Tried to help this kid, didnt work out. Like I told him he should of ditched her a long time ago. Funny part is, there neighbors.Kailex said:
Yea i know right, im just a bit pissed she would say something like this, but w/e not my problem
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I dated a chick with BPD a while ago so I know what ur saying bro. I really dont know much about her besides her mother died. Apparently she problems with lieing, can lie right to his face. She says shes going to be home at at 11 lets say, but she comes out at 3 in the morning, friend confronts her, she lies to her teeth about where she was.5string said:
She is bpd, 100%. They do this to get attention and love from the ones they are with. Twisted, and it never works, but that is what they think. I once dated a girl who said she was raped in a Wallmart parking lot, took out the garbage and someone attacked her and sliced her head open (she did it herself) said she was robbed, and much much more. All to get sympathy from me.Crissco said:
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Unknown but you can bet it's self serving.Crissco said:
Absolutely the right choice, especially if cordoncordon is right. Some of the guys on here just "sense" stuff, and cc is one of them. loveshogun as well.Crissco said: