She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
What the hell is wrong with your friend for dating her?Crissco said:
Tried to help this kid, didnt work out. Like I told him he should of ditched her a long time ago. Funny part is, there neighbors.Kailex said:
Yea i know right, im just a bit pissed she would say something like this, but w/e not my problem
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I dated a chick with BPD a while ago so I know what ur saying bro. I really dont know much about her besides her mother died. Apparently she problems with lieing, can lie right to his face. She says shes going to be home at at 11 lets say, but she comes out at 3 in the morning, friend confronts her, she lies to her teeth about where she was.5string said:
She is bpd, 100%. They do this to get attention and love from the ones they are with. Twisted, and it never works, but that is what they think. I once dated a girl who said she was raped in a Wallmart parking lot, took out the garbage and someone attacked her and sliced her head open (she did it herself) said she was robbed, and much much more. All to get sympathy from me.Crissco said:
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Unknown but you can bet it's self serving.Crissco said:
Absolutely the right choice, especially if cordoncordon is right. Some of the guys on here just "sense" stuff, and cc is one of them. loveshogun as well.Crissco said: