john_trenor
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Because of both insecurity and lack of attention. They just wont to play, or I have no idea it confuses me to.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
What the hell is up with girls/women holding hands in clubs?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
The Mad Ghost
Senior Don Juan
Exactly. F>cking, ''So we don't get lost''. Everything is about ''How you/I look'' in the club for girls. Do I look better than the next girl, have I got on enough lipgloss?, is that guy checking me out, why isn't that guy checking me out, I hope my friend doesn't go to the toilet yet, theres a bunch of guys near the door, shes going to the toilet now, how am I going to strut over there, what to do when get out of toilet?, should I pout harder?john_trenor said:Because of both insecurity and lack of attention
Its not so you don't get lost, its so you don't look vulnerable, or weird. Insecure-moptop-attention wh>res.
thedude4242
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there exicted thats all. there trying to show off. one girl will hold another girls hand in the club and lead them to the dance floor and stuff like that. 2 girls do this all the time.
Naughty Ninja
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The Mad Ghost said:Exactly. F>cking, ''So we don't get lost''. Everything is about ''How you/I look'' in the club for girls. Do I look better than the next girl, have I got on enough lipgloss?, is that guy checking me out, why isn't that guy checking me out, I hope my friend doesn't go to the toilet yet, theres a bunch of guys near the door, shes going to the toilet now, how am I going to strut over there, what to do when get out of toilet?, should I pout harder?
Its not so you don't get lost, its so you don't look vulnerable, or weird. Insecure-moptop-attention wh>res.
Damn MG, Your posts in this thread are cracking me up! lmao. It's true though. I laugh when I see them all holding hands. They look like a mother duck with her ducklings following behind. Someone should invest their money and buy glow in the dark toddler leashes (the telephone cord looking ones) to sell to the clubs to give sell to this market segment of women there. I'm not joking. They could probably make a sh!tload of money! I'm sure people would buy them for the hell of it!
bigjohnson
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I just don't understand why anyone would care.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
The Mad Ghost
Senior Don Juan
A poster, wanted to know the reasoning behind the insecurities and attention whvring of girls holding hands throughout a club environment. Does he care? I'm not sure, ask him.bigjohnson said:I just don't understand why anyone would care.
Are you old enough to venture to clubs?DJ_Hero said:This thread was making me lose hope in the forum until I seen this post
Naughty Ninja
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bigjohnson said:I just don't understand why anyone would care.
Just an observation. I find it hilarious. To me it shows massive insecurity no matter how "hot" the alleged C0ckblock chain of girls/ women is.
It's like they are trying to show they are in high "demand" and some guy or guys (God forbid) may try to actually TALK to one of them and leave the rest 'twitter texting on Flakebook' while not being payed attention to.
Again. No big deal. Just an observation.
The Mad Ghost
Senior Don Juan
You were commenting on something unwarranted which you haven't experienced yet. It matters because what you said/say doesn't.DJ_Hero said:Why would this matter to you?
The Mad Ghost
Senior Don Juan
Exactly, its what a girl would post. Here, we don't listen to ''Girl Advice'' instead we do the opposit, because 9 times out of 10, a girls advice is futile.DJ_Hero said:Haven't experience yet? If you look at my first post in this thread, you'll see I make a similar point to what a girl posted. Don't make assumptions about me based on my age.
You're too young to of felt a woman's warmth, kid. You haven't even been in a club yet, when I was 16-years-old. I wasn't worrying about women or how they acted, I was getting my dyck sucked and putting my weener in their tuna holes after the school dance.
I even saw you telling another poster, who is probably twice your age to "spin plates", this is what we call "The blind leading the blind". I'm not trying to dogpile you because of your age, I'm a big kid myself, the fact that you found this site, is a win on your part, BUT, you can't advise people on something without taking that advice yourself or haven't even experienced events with women yet.
You've got a lot of years ahead of you and it's probably good that you're on here at such a young age, but please, you're too young and inexperienced accompanying the trials and tribulations with women, ''YET'', STFU.