john_trenor
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Because of both insecurity and lack of attention. They just wont to play, or I have no idea it confuses me to.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Exactly. F>cking, ''So we don't get lost''. Everything is about ''How you/I look'' in the club for girls. Do I look better than the next girl, have I got on enough lipgloss?, is that guy checking me out, why isn't that guy checking me out, I hope my friend doesn't go to the toilet yet, theres a bunch of guys near the door, shes going to the toilet now, how am I going to strut over there, what to do when get out of toilet?, should I pout harder?john_trenor said:Because of both insecurity and lack of attention
The Mad Ghost said:Exactly. F>cking, ''So we don't get lost''. Everything is about ''How you/I look'' in the club for girls. Do I look better than the next girl, have I got on enough lipgloss?, is that guy checking me out, why isn't that guy checking me out, I hope my friend doesn't go to the toilet yet, theres a bunch of guys near the door, shes going to the toilet now, how am I going to strut over there, what to do when get out of toilet?, should I pout harder?
Its not so you don't get lost, its so you don't look vulnerable, or weird. Insecure-moptop-attention wh>res.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
A poster, wanted to know the reasoning behind the insecurities and attention whvring of girls holding hands throughout a club environment. Does he care? I'm not sure, ask him.bigjohnson said:I just don't understand why anyone would care.
Are you old enough to venture to clubs?DJ_Hero said:This thread was making me lose hope in the forum until I seen this post
bigjohnson said:I just don't understand why anyone would care.
You were commenting on something unwarranted which you haven't experienced yet. It matters because what you said/say doesn't.DJ_Hero said:Why would this matter to you?
Exactly, its what a girl would post. Here, we don't listen to ''Girl Advice'' instead we do the opposit, because 9 times out of 10, a girls advice is futile.DJ_Hero said:Haven't experience yet? If you look at my first post in this thread, you'll see I make a similar point to what a girl posted. Don't make assumptions about me based on my age.