john_trenor
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Because of both insecurity and lack of attention. They just wont to play, or I have no idea it confuses me to.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
What the hell is up with girls/women holding hands in clubs?
- Thread starter Naughty Ninja
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
The Mad Ghost
Senior Don Juan
Exactly. F>cking, ''So we don't get lost''. Everything is about ''How you/I look'' in the club for girls. Do I look better than the next girl, have I got on enough lipgloss?, is that guy checking me out, why isn't that guy checking me out, I hope my friend doesn't go to the toilet yet, theres a bunch of guys near the door, shes going to the toilet now, how am I going to strut over there, what to do when get out of toilet?, should I pout harder?john_trenor said:Because of both insecurity and lack of attention
Its not so you don't get lost, its so you don't look vulnerable, or weird. Insecure-moptop-attention wh>res.
thedude4242
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there exicted thats all. there trying to show off. one girl will hold another girls hand in the club and lead them to the dance floor and stuff like that. 2 girls do this all the time.
Naughty Ninja
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The Mad Ghost said:Exactly. F>cking, ''So we don't get lost''. Everything is about ''How you/I look'' in the club for girls. Do I look better than the next girl, have I got on enough lipgloss?, is that guy checking me out, why isn't that guy checking me out, I hope my friend doesn't go to the toilet yet, theres a bunch of guys near the door, shes going to the toilet now, how am I going to strut over there, what to do when get out of toilet?, should I pout harder?
Its not so you don't get lost, its so you don't look vulnerable, or weird. Insecure-moptop-attention wh>res.
Damn MG, Your posts in this thread are cracking me up! lmao. It's true though. I laugh when I see them all holding hands. They look like a mother duck with her ducklings following behind. Someone should invest their money and buy glow in the dark toddler leashes (the telephone cord looking ones) to sell to the clubs to give sell to this market segment of women there. I'm not joking. They could probably make a sh!tload of money! I'm sure people would buy them for the hell of it!
bigjohnson
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I just don't understand why anyone would care.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
The Mad Ghost
Senior Don Juan
A poster, wanted to know the reasoning behind the insecurities and attention whvring of girls holding hands throughout a club environment. Does he care? I'm not sure, ask him.bigjohnson said:I just don't understand why anyone would care.
Are you old enough to venture to clubs?DJ_Hero said:This thread was making me lose hope in the forum until I seen this post
Naughty Ninja
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bigjohnson said:I just don't understand why anyone would care.
Just an observation. I find it hilarious. To me it shows massive insecurity no matter how "hot" the alleged C0ckblock chain of girls/ women is.
It's like they are trying to show they are in high "demand" and some guy or guys (God forbid) may try to actually TALK to one of them and leave the rest 'twitter texting on Flakebook' while not being payed attention to.
Again. No big deal. Just an observation.
The Mad Ghost
Senior Don Juan
You were commenting on something unwarranted which you haven't experienced yet. It matters because what you said/say doesn't.DJ_Hero said:Why would this matter to you?
The Mad Ghost
Senior Don Juan
Exactly, its what a girl would post. Here, we don't listen to ''Girl Advice'' instead we do the opposit, because 9 times out of 10, a girls advice is futile.DJ_Hero said:Haven't experience yet? If you look at my first post in this thread, you'll see I make a similar point to what a girl posted. Don't make assumptions about me based on my age.
You're too young to of felt a woman's warmth, kid. You haven't even been in a club yet, when I was 16-years-old. I wasn't worrying about women or how they acted, I was getting my dyck sucked and putting my weener in their tuna holes after the school dance.
I even saw you telling another poster, who is probably twice your age to "spin plates", this is what we call "The blind leading the blind". I'm not trying to dogpile you because of your age, I'm a big kid myself, the fact that you found this site, is a win on your part, BUT, you can't advise people on something without taking that advice yourself or haven't even experienced events with women yet.
You've got a lot of years ahead of you and it's probably good that you're on here at such a young age, but please, you're too young and inexperienced accompanying the trials and tribulations with women, ''YET'', STFU.