"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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What the heck are girls doing on this site???

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well, since i have been in here, guys have been pm'ing me to ask for advice. so, we do seem to serve SOME purpose! who can decipher the female mor eso than one of her comrades?

personally, i like coming in here to gain perspective on whats going on on the other side of things. see what you guys write has been enlightening at best and horrifying at worse. its nice to see some guys really care about the chicks they are with and are interested in committing. on the other hand, i see postsdescribing how the guy "banged" a virgin and then posts her photo. yeah, real classy.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by Hayley79
well, since i have been in here, guys have been pm'ing me to ask for advice. so, we do seem to serve SOME purpose! who can decipher the female mor eso than one of her comrades?
...Still holding my tongue...:p
 

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wow, that's the most replies I got on a topic....interesting. Well, I understand now; the term female don-juan just felt like an oxymoron even though they might exist. girls are here to give non-biased advice. :cheer:
 

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Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
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you can always use a dictionary my friend...
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Re: Whats the big deal?!?!

Originally posted by ~ªêQµïTª$~
try benefit from them/their knowledge.
i dont mind them being here...i really dont care but that statement right there is kinda of a pradox
 

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So the other day I'm going to this place to get me a sandwich. I'm going for the parking space and this girl comes out of nowhere and starts walking like she's the most important thing alive on the planet (even though I could see through her bull****). So I know she's runnin some kinda game... I was running out of patience as usual and was in a serious mood (hungry as a dog).
What would you have done if you were me in that situation? Remember, I was with my car, trying to get in the parking space and the girl is walking slowly in front of me while I'm furiously trying to get to some food.

I'll tell you what I did when I hear your replies.
 

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Originally posted by Ebach
So the other day I'm going to this place to get me a sandwich. I'm going for the parking space and this girl comes out of nowhere and starts walking like she's the most important thing alive on the planet (even though I could see through her bull****). So I know she's runnin some kinda game... I was running out of patience as usual and was in a serious mood (hungry as a dog).
What would you have done if you were me in that situation? Remember, I was with my car, trying to get in the parking space and the girl is walking slowly in front of me while I'm furiously trying to get to some food.

I'll tell you what I did when I hear your replies.
"hey you still have a vagina, if i were you id cut that crap."
 

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Originally posted by undesputable
"hey you still have a vagina, if i were you id cut that crap."
:crackup: I don't know what any of this has to do w/ my topic but its funny as hell.
 

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Originally posted by DJ_in_making
:crackup: I don't know what any of this has to do w/ my topic but its funny as hell.
Here's a dictionary for 'ya.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Closed. I think you all know why.

For what it's worth, I happen to know for a fact that penkitten gets PMs non-stop from guys who want advice from her but are too damn chicken-sh*t to admit it on the forum. Sometimes she gets asked for advice from some of the same guys who complain about women being on the site.
 
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