Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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What the heck are girls doing on this site???

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Hayley79

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well, since i have been in here, guys have been pm'ing me to ask for advice. so, we do seem to serve SOME purpose! who can decipher the female mor eso than one of her comrades?

personally, i like coming in here to gain perspective on whats going on on the other side of things. see what you guys write has been enlightening at best and horrifying at worse. its nice to see some guys really care about the chicks they are with and are interested in committing. on the other hand, i see postsdescribing how the guy "banged" a virgin and then posts her photo. yeah, real classy.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by Hayley79
well, since i have been in here, guys have been pm'ing me to ask for advice. so, we do seem to serve SOME purpose! who can decipher the female mor eso than one of her comrades?
...Still holding my tongue...:p
 

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wow, that's the most replies I got on a topic....interesting. Well, I understand now; the term female don-juan just felt like an oxymoron even though they might exist. girls are here to give non-biased advice. :cheer:
 

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Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
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you can always use a dictionary my friend...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Re: Whats the big deal?!?!

Originally posted by ~ªêQµïTª$~
try benefit from them/their knowledge.
i dont mind them being here...i really dont care but that statement right there is kinda of a pradox
 

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So the other day I'm going to this place to get me a sandwich. I'm going for the parking space and this girl comes out of nowhere and starts walking like she's the most important thing alive on the planet (even though I could see through her bull****). So I know she's runnin some kinda game... I was running out of patience as usual and was in a serious mood (hungry as a dog).
What would you have done if you were me in that situation? Remember, I was with my car, trying to get in the parking space and the girl is walking slowly in front of me while I'm furiously trying to get to some food.

I'll tell you what I did when I hear your replies.
 

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Originally posted by Ebach
So the other day I'm going to this place to get me a sandwich. I'm going for the parking space and this girl comes out of nowhere and starts walking like she's the most important thing alive on the planet (even though I could see through her bull****). So I know she's runnin some kinda game... I was running out of patience as usual and was in a serious mood (hungry as a dog).
What would you have done if you were me in that situation? Remember, I was with my car, trying to get in the parking space and the girl is walking slowly in front of me while I'm furiously trying to get to some food.

I'll tell you what I did when I hear your replies.
"hey you still have a vagina, if i were you id cut that crap."
 

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Originally posted by undesputable
"hey you still have a vagina, if i were you id cut that crap."
:crackup: I don't know what any of this has to do w/ my topic but its funny as hell.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by DJ_in_making
:crackup: I don't know what any of this has to do w/ my topic but its funny as hell.
Here's a dictionary for 'ya.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Giovanni Casanova

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Closed. I think you all know why.

For what it's worth, I happen to know for a fact that penkitten gets PMs non-stop from guys who want advice from her but are too damn chicken-sh*t to admit it on the forum. Sometimes she gets asked for advice from some of the same guys who complain about women being on the site.
 
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