Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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What the FVCK is reputation points?

TheLadiesMan

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I mean, I'm probably one of the oldest members, and my post count can be compared to the guy who signed up a month ago.

When did they pull this out?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Hooligan Harry

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I dont think post count should be an indication of reputation either.

The rep system is flawed though because people dont use it properly half the time. If I could make a suggestion it would be to replace reputation with thanks/no thanks system.
 

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squirrels said:
Rep points is a system to make KBJs feel good about themselves. :p
Motherfvcking Squirrels nailed it!

It's affirmation for your virtual identity and doesn't mean a goddamned thing.
 

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Its something for sub par posters to b!tch and whine about since no one reps them due to their garbage advice.

Aside from those degenerates there is a spinoff website out there made by an ex Sosuave member simpleton and populated by ex Sosuave member sycophantic simpletons who regularly come here to whine, troll and b!tch about their hero and god the head simpleton in charge or rather HSIC (as I now call him) never being able to win over the hearts and minds of the Sosuave forum as Pook once did and also they are angered over their god never being able to take the top spot in reputation on Sosuave.
(The guy can barely crack the top ten here)

Instead Rollo Tomassi succeeded Pook as the top regarded poster on this site (when it comes to the forum's overrall message and direction) and the simpleton and his sycophants can't stand that nor the fact that their god never made number one in reputation points here and so they raid this place and stink it up from time to time in an effort to try and bring back and force us to live in the past with them as well prop their god up and give him the attention and worship he feels he deserves in his thoroughly deluded simpleton mind.

Edit: And I'm not talking to you TheLadiesMan with my post just the jealous kids who care about rep and b!tch about not having any.
 
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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One could argue that the rep points are an attempt to encourage posters to write reputable posts, which will encourage more readers, or traffic, and earn the site owner more money.

They can also be helpful (as on any site that uses them) to gauge the general condition of the board by reading a few posts by hi ranked posters, as more green dots reflect general approval from other posters. It's important to note, however that a plethora of green dots only indicates agreement from several like minded posters, rather than an indication of sound advice.

If you are likely to agree with posters with many rep points, you'll agree with the general advice on the boards, and vice versa.

Just like anything, you can read into them what you'd like.

Or ignore them.
 

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Though I could care less about the silly green bars, I actually like the rep system. You get to see what posts resonate most with people, and its cool that they get to send you a little message. My only criticism of the system is that it focuses too much on the poster and not the content. I'd be more interested in seeing which POSTS got the most reps instead of which USERS got them. Hopefully when I have time I will finish my vBulletin hack that does exactly this.

KontrollerX said:
Aside from those degenerates there is a spinoff website out there made by an ex Sosuave member simpleton and populated by ex Sosuave member sycophantic simpletons who regularly come here to whine, troll and b!tch about their hero and god the head simpleton in charge or rather HSIC (as I now call him)
Haha! Good one, KX. Glad to see you are over the past, unlike us poor simpletons :D

Blessings and best of luck to you in '09 :up:
 

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KontrollerX said:
Its something for sub par posters to b!tch and whine about since no one reps them due to their garbage advice.

Aside from those degenerates there is a spinoff website out there made by an ex Sosuave member simpleton and populated by ex Sosuave member sycophantic simpletons who regularly come here to whine, troll and b!tch about their hero and god the head simpleton in charge or rather HSIC (as I now call him) never being able to win over the hearts and minds of the Sosuave forum as Pook once did and also they are angered over their god never being able to take the top spot in reputation on Sosuave.
(The guy can barely crack the top ten here)

Instead Rollo Tomassi succeeded Pook as the top regarded poster on this site (when it comes to the forum's overrall message and direction) and the simpleton and his sycophants can't stand that nor the fact that their god never made number one in reputation points here and so they raid this place and stink it up from time to time in an effort to try and bring back and force us to live in the past with them as well prop their god up and give him the attention and worship he feels he deserves in his thoroughly deluded simpleton mind.

:crackup: This is worthy of being Repped
 

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KontrollerX said:
On the set of Lethal Weapon 5 now starring KarmaSutra and TheRealSupreme as vigilante cops that do battle with taiyuu_otoko and his yakuza hentai smuggling crime syndicate. Can anyone say straight to video release?
Video is so 90's. Straight to dvd is the current migration.

I dig this! Supreme and I as booty-cops livin' on the edge!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Cr1msonKing said:
I'm not sure what happened between Karma and reputation points.
I realized they aren't a representation of who I am as a man. Anyone can gobble up the spittle of other guys and rewrite as their own. If it makes them feel momentarily superior to have a bunch of green under their names, so be it.

I think they're stupid. Remember, I was numero uno here at SoSuave at one time but it was only a mustard fart. It was tangy for a second then forgotten in the breeze.

But I got to thinking that other guys really believe they are their online self and it's a sad psychological state to be in.

I'm not saying anything detrimental against anyone here but it's so freeing to let go of that dumbsh!t.
 

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KontrollerX said:
Aside from those degenerates there is a spinoff website out there made by an ex Sosuave member simpleton and populated by ex Sosuave member sycophantic simpletons
who's that?
 

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TheLadiesMan said:
I mean, I'm probably one of the oldest members, and my post count can be compared to the guy who signed up a month ago.

When did they pull this out?
you just suck that's all. your rep is a confirmation of your suckiness, so please avoid making sucky posts and increasing the overall sucktitude of the forum.
 

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KontrollerX said:
Its something for sub par posters to b!tch and whine about since no one reps them due to their garbage advice.

Aside from those degenerates there is a spinoff website out there made by an ex Sosuave member simpleton and populated by ex Sosuave member sycophantic simpletons who regularly come here to whine, troll and b!tch about their hero and god the head simpleton in charge or rather HSIC (as I now call him) never being able to win over the hearts and minds of the Sosuave forum as Pook once did and also they are angered over their god never being able to take the top spot in reputation on Sosuave.
(The guy can barely crack the top ten here)

Instead Rollo Tomassi succeeded Pook as the top regarded poster on this site (when it comes to the forum's overrall message and direction) and the simpleton and his sycophants can't stand that nor the fact that their god never made number one in reputation points here and so they raid this place and stink it up from time to time in an effort to try and bring back and force us to live in the past with them as well prop their god up and give him the attention and worship he feels he deserves in his thoroughly deluded simpleton mind.

Edit: And I'm not talking to you TheLadiesMan with my post just the jealous kids who care about rep and b!tch about not having any.
funny sh!t. I'd rep you but it says i have to spread more around first.

im not being insulting to OP either, just making jokes. its all in good fun.
 

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gawd,..perish the thought that I could ever succeed Pook,..

That's not Pook-worship, it's just, unrealistic,...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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