"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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what the fook does this mean?

spang

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me: are you free anytime next week? we can meet up for a drink or something.

her:Besides Tues and Friday night, I think I'm mostly free. When and where were you thinking?

her:Note: I might judge you depending on how you answer.


what is this an audition??:down:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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HalfPUAHalfAFC

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Reply with your last line in you post. No emoticons though

It'll probably turn her off though.

But she already sounds like trouble, unless you know her well enough to interpret her text as facetious.

Here's some other possibilities to respond with:

Just respond with place/time: Jim's Bar, 9:30, Wednesday. Wear your clown suit.

Or, "Ha!"

Or, "I'll meet you at XYX, at [this time]... and I'll do the judging, missy."

Or, "Oh really?"

Or, :crackup:

Or, "Whatever"

Or, "Meet me at [place/time]. Bring your gavel, smarty pants"

YMMV
 

Pimp-sicle

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You can play this a couple ways.

One you can completely ignore her last line, women say stupid shiat all the time and you don't need to answer every single phuckin' question or statement thrown your way and proceed by telling her a time/place & day to meet you.

Or you can say something witty/****y; but I would refrain from this if this is a girl that you don't know well since sarcasm can easily get misinterpreted via text.

Or if you REALLY want to get her hamster spinning; don't reply at all and wait for her to text you again.

By delaying your response, you will get her imagination running and if she has solid interest in you, she will get worried and think she blew it with her stupid statement.

I would completely ignore it and just suggest a time and place/day. If she gives you any answer but yes, then ditch her.





PIMP
 

spang

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i left her a smart ass reply. already asked twice. not gonna put up with this crap.
 

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I'd say:

Damn, I didn't know I was on trial!

Or just ignored it. This girl reeks of entitlement already!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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