"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What the F**K is my problem ?

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Y'all know me . maybe you can tell me why i have limited success w/ women
heres what you need to know about me :

. 27 yo
. 6'2"
. Afro-American Male ( HD4 ? )
. 2 - 250 lbs ( mostly muscle) small gut
considered a big man .
Heres my Pic :


. Professional Comic Artist/writer (self Published) 40 - 55k Per Year.
. Martial Arts enthusiast & Practitioner
. never had a serious GF or LTR EVER ! some close calls though.
. I have some good game ,no openers and really bad c&f and terrible at
Num closes & phone game .
. never kissed a girl , not even close , plenty of hugs though .
. Known with a couple of celebs ( some actors & models, mostly comic people )
.have had some really bad experiances with women , so esteem is a bit low .

so , what can i do to turn this around ? im looking for a LTRnot looking to be a player . but if you cant even get in the game , how you gonna score ?
this is my problem - HELP ! :confused:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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you're a creative guy a writer so you are good with language. why not use this skill in your interactions with women? I believe you are shy about approaching them and talking to them, perhaps a major fear of rejection. the bootcamp idea is a good one. But if you seriously want to change, you have the raw material to be much much better with women and to solve your problems. You need to come up with and execute a strategy and master plan.
 
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So then, it is all about being dominant? Being powerful? What if you don't have that? What if you have everything else, personality wise, not necessarily financially or "social status" wise, but still end up like are op fellow. My experience is limited too, for many reasons I suppose. It is feeling of low confidence I think.
 
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this is a good idea , but what if i cant get out to a bootcamp ?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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ItsOnNow " So then, it is all about being dominant? Being powerful? What if you don't have that? "

Then you don't have testosterone !

You don't have to do sports or anything, just slightly modify your diet.
 
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