“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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What the F**K is my problem ?

ashman1

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Y'all know me . maybe you can tell me why i have limited success w/ women
heres what you need to know about me :

. 27 yo
. 6'2"
. Afro-American Male ( HD4 ? )
. 2 - 250 lbs ( mostly muscle) small gut
considered a big man .
Heres my Pic :


. Professional Comic Artist/writer (self Published) 40 - 55k Per Year.
. Martial Arts enthusiast & Practitioner
. never had a serious GF or LTR EVER ! some close calls though.
. I have some good game ,no openers and really bad c&f and terrible at
Num closes & phone game .
. never kissed a girl , not even close , plenty of hugs though .
. Known with a couple of celebs ( some actors & models, mostly comic people )
.have had some really bad experiances with women , so esteem is a bit low .

so , what can i do to turn this around ? im looking for a LTRnot looking to be a player . but if you cant even get in the game , how you gonna score ?
this is my problem - HELP ! :confused:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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decades

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you're a creative guy a writer so you are good with language. why not use this skill in your interactions with women? I believe you are shy about approaching them and talking to them, perhaps a major fear of rejection. the bootcamp idea is a good one. But if you seriously want to change, you have the raw material to be much much better with women and to solve your problems. You need to come up with and execute a strategy and master plan.
 

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So then, it is all about being dominant? Being powerful? What if you don't have that? What if you have everything else, personality wise, not necessarily financially or "social status" wise, but still end up like are op fellow. My experience is limited too, for many reasons I suppose. It is feeling of low confidence I think.
 

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this is a good idea , but what if i cant get out to a bootcamp ?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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ItsOnNow " So then, it is all about being dominant? Being powerful? What if you don't have that? "

Then you don't have testosterone !

You don't have to do sports or anything, just slightly modify your diet.
 
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