What the F**K is my problem ?

[ashman1]

Y'all know me . maybe you can tell me why i have limited success w/ women
heres what you need to know about me :

. 27 yo
. 6'2"
. Afro-American Male ( HD4 ? )
. 2 - 250 lbs ( mostly muscle) small gut
considered a big man .
Heres my Pic :

. Professional Comic Artist/writer (self Published) 40 - 55k Per Year.
. Martial Arts enthusiast & Practitioner
. never had a serious GF or LTR EVER ! some close calls though.
. I have some good game ,no openers and really bad c&f and terrible at
Num closes & phone game .
. never kissed a girl , not even close , plenty of hugs though .
. Known with a couple of celebs ( some actors & models, mostly comic people )
.have had some really bad experiances with women , so esteem is a bit low .

so , what can i do to turn this around ? im looking for a LTRnot looking to be a player . but if you cant even get in the game , how you gonna score ?
this is my problem - HELP !

 

[decades]

you're a creative guy a writer so you are good with language. why not use this skill in your interactions with women? I believe you are shy about approaching them and talking to them, perhaps a major fear of rejection. the bootcamp idea is a good one. But if you seriously want to change, you have the raw material to be much much better with women and to solve your problems. You need to come up with and execute a strategy and master plan.

 

[ItsOnNow]

So then, it is all about being dominant? Being powerful? What if you don't have that? What if you have everything else, personality wise, not necessarily financially or "social status" wise, but still end up like are op fellow. My experience is limited too, for many reasons I suppose. It is feeling of low confidence I think.

 

[ashman1]

this is a good idea , but what if i cant get out to a bootcamp ?

 

[ashman1]

yeah. but what if i cant get out to a bootcamp ?

 

[Groovy]

ItsOnNow " So then, it is all about being dominant? Being powerful? What if you don't have that? "

Then you don't have testosterone !

You don't have to do sports or anything, just slightly modify your diet.

 

[ashman1]

no not quiting , just looking to self train .