"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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What the F**K is my problem ?

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Y'all know me . maybe you can tell me why i have limited success w/ women
heres what you need to know about me :

. 27 yo
. 6'2"
. Afro-American Male ( HD4 ? )
. 2 - 250 lbs ( mostly muscle) small gut
considered a big man .
Heres my Pic :


. Professional Comic Artist/writer (self Published) 40 - 55k Per Year.
. Martial Arts enthusiast & Practitioner
. never had a serious GF or LTR EVER ! some close calls though.
. I have some good game ,no openers and really bad c&f and terrible at
Num closes & phone game .
. never kissed a girl , not even close , plenty of hugs though .
. Known with a couple of celebs ( some actors & models, mostly comic people )
.have had some really bad experiances with women , so esteem is a bit low .

so , what can i do to turn this around ? im looking for a LTRnot looking to be a player . but if you cant even get in the game , how you gonna score ?
this is my problem - HELP ! :confused:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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you're a creative guy a writer so you are good with language. why not use this skill in your interactions with women? I believe you are shy about approaching them and talking to them, perhaps a major fear of rejection. the bootcamp idea is a good one. But if you seriously want to change, you have the raw material to be much much better with women and to solve your problems. You need to come up with and execute a strategy and master plan.
 
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So then, it is all about being dominant? Being powerful? What if you don't have that? What if you have everything else, personality wise, not necessarily financially or "social status" wise, but still end up like are op fellow. My experience is limited too, for many reasons I suppose. It is feeling of low confidence I think.
 
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this is a good idea , but what if i cant get out to a bootcamp ?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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ItsOnNow " So then, it is all about being dominant? Being powerful? What if you don't have that? "

Then you don't have testosterone !

You don't have to do sports or anything, just slightly modify your diet.
 
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