"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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What Songs gets girls in the MOOD?

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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youknowtherest

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I have a selection of Ray Charles ballads on a CD that I throw in. I also like soft old-school early-bop jazz, especially with a woofy tenor saxophone -- not Kenny G or "smooth jazz" sizzly porn soundtrack beat-box shyt: I mean Turrentine, Dexter Gordon, Ben Webster. Put on some Turrentine (on vinyl -- it sounds good with the slight pops and hiss), drop the needle on "Someone to Watch Over Me," take her drink and set it down, and slow-dance in your living room. If you think this is gray-hair shyt, I've knocked the socks off of wide-eyed coeds with this. Recently. Refinement FTW.

There's also a great series of CD comps made in the late 90's, uptempo trance stuff with the occasional sampled moan. I've been burning CD's of it for so long I forget the name of the comps, though. It was a Volume I, II, & III.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Bigg Boss

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Dee-Zy said:
Eminem - Kim
lol I doubt many here know what you're talkin bout. That song is crazy tho.


Me & You - Cassie (I love that song to def, DAMN I love that song. I don't usually trip over female R&B songs like this but this one is FIRE)

You Nasty - Lil Wayne (lol I bump this song in my car to get ME in the mood)

Making Good Love - Avant(?) This song is great, also great when yall are already starting


Man I can't wait to go see my girl this week, thinking about these songs is gettin me
 

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What about Elvis Presley, The Beatles, and, Johnny Cash, have you forgotten about them. :confused:
 
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