"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What Songs gets girls in the MOOD?

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I have a selection of Ray Charles ballads on a CD that I throw in. I also like soft old-school early-bop jazz, especially with a woofy tenor saxophone -- not Kenny G or "smooth jazz" sizzly porn soundtrack beat-box shyt: I mean Turrentine, Dexter Gordon, Ben Webster. Put on some Turrentine (on vinyl -- it sounds good with the slight pops and hiss), drop the needle on "Someone to Watch Over Me," take her drink and set it down, and slow-dance in your living room. If you think this is gray-hair shyt, I've knocked the socks off of wide-eyed coeds with this. Recently. Refinement FTW.

There's also a great series of CD comps made in the late 90's, uptempo trance stuff with the occasional sampled moan. I've been burning CD's of it for so long I forget the name of the comps, though. It was a Volume I, II, & III.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Dee-Zy said:
Eminem - Kim
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lol I doubt many here know what you're talkin bout. That song is crazy tho.


Me & You - Cassie (I love that song to def, DAMN I love that song. I don't usually trip over female R&B songs like this but this one is FIRE)

You Nasty - Lil Wayne (lol I bump this song in my car to get ME in the mood)

Making Good Love - Avant(?) This song is great, also great when yall are already starting


Man I can't wait to go see my girl this week, thinking about these songs is gettin me
 
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What about Elvis Presley, The Beatles, and, Johnny Cash, have you forgotten about them. :confused:
 
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