"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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What Songs gets girls in the MOOD?

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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youknowtherest

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I have a selection of Ray Charles ballads on a CD that I throw in. I also like soft old-school early-bop jazz, especially with a woofy tenor saxophone -- not Kenny G or "smooth jazz" sizzly porn soundtrack beat-box shyt: I mean Turrentine, Dexter Gordon, Ben Webster. Put on some Turrentine (on vinyl -- it sounds good with the slight pops and hiss), drop the needle on "Someone to Watch Over Me," take her drink and set it down, and slow-dance in your living room. If you think this is gray-hair shyt, I've knocked the socks off of wide-eyed coeds with this. Recently. Refinement FTW.

There's also a great series of CD comps made in the late 90's, uptempo trance stuff with the occasional sampled moan. I've been burning CD's of it for so long I forget the name of the comps, though. It was a Volume I, II, & III.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Dee-Zy said:
Eminem - Kim
lol I doubt many here know what you're talkin bout. That song is crazy tho.


Me & You - Cassie (I love that song to def, DAMN I love that song. I don't usually trip over female R&B songs like this but this one is FIRE)

You Nasty - Lil Wayne (lol I bump this song in my car to get ME in the mood)

Making Good Love - Avant(?) This song is great, also great when yall are already starting


Man I can't wait to go see my girl this week, thinking about these songs is gettin me
 

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What about Elvis Presley, The Beatles, and, Johnny Cash, have you forgotten about them. :confused:
 
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