"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What Songs gets girls in the MOOD?

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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youknowtherest

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I have a selection of Ray Charles ballads on a CD that I throw in. I also like soft old-school early-bop jazz, especially with a woofy tenor saxophone -- not Kenny G or "smooth jazz" sizzly porn soundtrack beat-box shyt: I mean Turrentine, Dexter Gordon, Ben Webster. Put on some Turrentine (on vinyl -- it sounds good with the slight pops and hiss), drop the needle on "Someone to Watch Over Me," take her drink and set it down, and slow-dance in your living room. If you think this is gray-hair shyt, I've knocked the socks off of wide-eyed coeds with this. Recently. Refinement FTW.

There's also a great series of CD comps made in the late 90's, uptempo trance stuff with the occasional sampled moan. I've been burning CD's of it for so long I forget the name of the comps, though. It was a Volume I, II, & III.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Dee-Zy said:
Eminem - Kim
lol I doubt many here know what you're talkin bout. That song is crazy tho.


Me & You - Cassie (I love that song to def, DAMN I love that song. I don't usually trip over female R&B songs like this but this one is FIRE)

You Nasty - Lil Wayne (lol I bump this song in my car to get ME in the mood)

Making Good Love - Avant(?) This song is great, also great when yall are already starting


Man I can't wait to go see my girl this week, thinking about these songs is gettin me
 

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What about Elvis Presley, The Beatles, and, Johnny Cash, have you forgotten about them. :confused:
 
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