BxPrince24
Senior Don Juan
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damn it i accidentally erased what I wrote... freak...
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
What are you talking about? How did family even come into this? When I say more responsiblities I'm talking about working, have things that I have to take care of, places that I have to go, etc...Originally posted by ethnomethodologist
lol "more responsibilities?" like you have none right now. I'm assuming your family is all dead now, and they left no message to the world, I'm assuming you had your **** chopped off, and your balls are shriveled, I'm assuming everybody in your life is perfect, lots of assumptions saying you need more responsibility punk.
You sound ungrateful to the people that love you. Nobody's ever told you you were wrong, nobody's ever told you that you need to work on your life? Those ARE your responsibilities.
I'm in college, therefore I'm broke. If I do get a car, my father will pay for the insurance/other expenses. I've tried looking for a job and I'm still trying to get a job. Can't afford to work out in a gym so I work out in my room and jog around the block every other day.Originally posted by Mr. Unique
If you want a job, get a job. If you want a car but dont have the money, get the job and save your money, get you're butt off the chair, turn the computer off and look for a job. you want to be a man, hit the gym and work out, its not that hard, man sorry if this isnt the answer you were looking for but its the only way.
I'll try to pretend you didn't just say your family is not part of your responsibilities.Originally posted by BxPrince24
What are you talking about? How did family even come into this? When I say more responsiblities I'm talking about working, have things that I have to take care of, places that I have to go, etc...
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
What does a vacation mean to you Spiky? It's been a long time since I've been on one, I wonder if I could learn from taking one as well.Originally posted by Spiky
you need a better outlook. Get a regular job (like at a supermarket), save for a month or two and go on a cheap holiday somewhere... whenever i get depressed or stuck in a rut this always helps me (and im only 17). Go scuba diving, take up boxing, do a PU bootcamp, etc, whatever. If you wanna feel like a man then act like one.