BxPrince24
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damn it i accidentally erased what I wrote... freak...
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
what should I do?
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
BxPrince24
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Damn... this is the 3rd time i'm writting this.
I want to feel more like a man than a teen. Like if I had a car, a goatee, and a job, that would help increase that feeling. I'm 18 and in college. I still feel like I'm a kid who hasn't became an adult yet.
When I'm with a girl, I want her to feel like yea, that her man, he's got things going on. I can't really explain it. I've always envisioned that I'd be doing different things when I became an adult. Is there ever a change? do you get what I'm talking about? Any advice/suggestions?
I want to feel more like a man than a teen. Like if I had a car, a goatee, and a job, that would help increase that feeling. I'm 18 and in college. I still feel like I'm a kid who hasn't became an adult yet.
When I'm with a girl, I want her to feel like yea, that her man, he's got things going on. I can't really explain it. I've always envisioned that I'd be doing different things when I became an adult. Is there ever a change? do you get what I'm talking about? Any advice/suggestions?
Mr. Unique
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BxPrince24
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I'm not having a problem with getting girls right now, i'm not a "nice guy" and I've read that thread b4.
This is more of something with myself not other people, there are things that I think take you from the point of being a teen to an adult. And like I said above, facial hair and other things that I believe can increase that feeling.
I'm still pretty much doing the same stuff that I've been doing, there hasn't really been much change. But I definately think that making me get a car would really give the feeling of actually being an adult.
Maybe what I actually need to feel that way is more responsibilities, i don't know... grrrr...
This is more of something with myself not other people, there are things that I think take you from the point of being a teen to an adult. And like I said above, facial hair and other things that I believe can increase that feeling.
I'm still pretty much doing the same stuff that I've been doing, there hasn't really been much change. But I definately think that making me get a car would really give the feeling of actually being an adult.
Maybe what I actually need to feel that way is more responsibilities, i don't know... grrrr...
ethnomethodologist
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lol "more responsibilities?" like you have none right now. I'm assuming your family is all dead now, and they left no message to the world, I'm assuming you had your **** chopped off, and your balls are shriveled, I'm assuming everybody in your life is perfect, lots of assumptions saying you need more responsibility punk.
You sound ungrateful to the people that love you. Nobody's ever told you you were wrong, nobody's ever told you that you need to work on your life? Those ARE your responsibilities.
You sound ungrateful to the people that love you. Nobody's ever told you you were wrong, nobody's ever told you that you need to work on your life? Those ARE your responsibilities.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
BxPrince24
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What are you talking about? How did family even come into this? When I say more responsiblities I'm talking about working, have things that I have to take care of, places that I have to go, etc...Originally posted by ethnomethodologist
lol "more responsibilities?" like you have none right now. I'm assuming your family is all dead now, and they left no message to the world, I'm assuming you had your **** chopped off, and your balls are shriveled, I'm assuming everybody in your life is perfect, lots of assumptions saying you need more responsibility punk.
You sound ungrateful to the people that love you. Nobody's ever told you you were wrong, nobody's ever told you that you need to work on your life? Those ARE your responsibilities.
Mr. Unique
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If you want a job, get a job. If you want a car but dont have the money, get the job and save your money, get you're butt off the chair, turn the computer off and look for a job. you want to be a man, hit the gym and work out, its not that hard, man sorry if this isnt the answer you were looking for but its the only way.
BxPrince24
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I'm in college, therefore I'm broke. If I do get a car, my father will pay for the insurance/other expenses. I've tried looking for a job and I'm still trying to get a job. Can't afford to work out in a gym so I work out in my room and jog around the block every other day.Originally posted by Mr. Unique
If you want a job, get a job. If you want a car but dont have the money, get the job and save your money, get you're butt off the chair, turn the computer off and look for a job. you want to be a man, hit the gym and work out, its not that hard, man sorry if this isnt the answer you were looking for but its the only way.
ethnomethodologist
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I'll try to pretend you didn't just say your family is not part of your responsibilities.Originally posted by BxPrince24
What are you talking about? How did family even come into this? When I say more responsiblities I'm talking about working, have things that I have to take care of, places that I have to go, etc...
So what you just want a job? As in employment right? Is that the only thing you want as a responsibility, do you believe you are actually going to do everything you are responsible for, if you can't even admit that you have some OUTSIDE of work?
Spiky
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you need a better outlook. Get a regular job (like at a supermarket), save for a month or two and go on a cheap holiday somewhere... whenever i get depressed or stuck in a rut this always helps me (and im only 17). Go scuba diving, take up boxing, do a PU bootcamp, etc, whatever. If you wanna feel like a man then act like one.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
ethnomethodologist
Master Don Juan
What does a vacation mean to you Spiky? It's been a long time since I've been on one, I wonder if I could learn from taking one as well.Originally posted by Spiky
you need a better outlook. Get a regular job (like at a supermarket), save for a month or two and go on a cheap holiday somewhere... whenever i get depressed or stuck in a rut this always helps me (and im only 17). Go scuba diving, take up boxing, do a PU bootcamp, etc, whatever. If you wanna feel like a man then act like one.