"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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what should I do next?

RebelKB

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Hey Everyone,
Well here is my story.
I am in my second year of college, now on Mondays and Wednesdays I have back to back fittness classes with this girl. By the second day after classes she actually came up and introduced herself to me. She said how about that aerobics class.....and we exchanged names etc. All the way to our cars we chatted about our majors, class etc. In my second class of the day she sits right behind me, and after class we always end up walking back to our cars chitt-chatting. This has been going on for about 3 weeks now 2 days a week. What should be the next step, or what would be good for us to get to know each other better , lunch? I would really aprechiate any advice or tips to get to know her better, and keep things well. Thanks alot
RebelKB:)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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BADA-BING

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Dude, she obviously likes you otherwise she wouldn't have approached you.

Go for it! Take her anywhere lunch, dinner, coffee whatever, just get her out somewhere with just you. Make sure you keep the date light-hearted. Have fun!
 

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What Bada-Bing said.


The clock is ticking. If you want her, ask her out..... otherwise she'll think you're uninterested. 3 weeks is an awful long time to have not already asked her out.

If she declines, then just chalk it up to a friendly girl, and keep it at that.

Don't start second-guessing her IL.


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Oh, man..this give me the greatest Idea. I am not too sure this will work, but hell give it a try if you don't come up with something to say.


When talking to her to your car go "Hey, when are you going to ask me out?..You have been hitting on me for 3 weeks now and still no date. I am starting to lose interest. "

I am basically turning the whole situation around and using it against her. Most women get approach by guys and act shy and stuff. So they don't ask the lady out on a date and wait a while. Your just reverse the roles.

Also note:Worst case scenerio she says she wasn't hitting on you. Then say "Well, then we can just be friends".
 

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Originally posted by Unforsaken
When talking to her to your car go "Hey, when are you going to ask me out?..You have been hitting on me for 3 weeks now and still no date. I am starting to lose interest. "
That's awesome dude. never thought to look at it like that. def. would throw her off guard. great, great, great
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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