"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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What should go on the very first phone call?

Captain Obvious

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I've been wondering about this. Say I meet a girl at a club or party and get her #. Should I immediately try to set up a date the first time I call her? Or should I just call her and ask her what's up? Remember, this would only be the 2nd time I've talked to her in her life.

Also, if it's the 2nd one, what should I talk about without it being real awkward?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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DasaniWater

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In my Gfs pants??!?!?!

Why are you asking for advice if your in peoples gfs pants.... ?
 

onyx

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DasaniWater said:
Why are you asking for advice if your in peoples gfs pants.... ?
exactly...

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shut the **** up or change ur location u chump
 

Shiftkey

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It depends on where you are with the girl. If you got her phone number after only chatting for 5 minutes, you're going to need to build more attraction and rapport over the phone or she's just going to flake. Ideally you should'nt even need a phone number because you set a date while you first met her.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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WORKEROUTER

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"it was great talking to you the other day. let's meet up together...im free (choose a day)."
 
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