"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What should go on the very first phone call?

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Captain Obvious

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I've been wondering about this. Say I meet a girl at a club or party and get her #. Should I immediately try to set up a date the first time I call her? Or should I just call her and ask her what's up? Remember, this would only be the 2nd time I've talked to her in her life.

Also, if it's the 2nd one, what should I talk about without it being real awkward?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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DasaniWater

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In my Gfs pants??!?!?!

Why are you asking for advice if your in peoples gfs pants.... ?
 
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onyx

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DasaniWater said:
Why are you asking for advice if your in peoples gfs pants.... ?
Click to expand...
exactly...

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Don Juan






 

Join Date: Jul 2006


Location: In your girlfriend's pants



Posts: 7


shut the **** up or change ur location u chump
 
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Shiftkey

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It depends on where you are with the girl. If you got her phone number after only chatting for 5 minutes, you're going to need to build more attraction and rapport over the phone or she's just going to flake. Ideally you should'nt even need a phone number because you set a date while you first met her.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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WORKEROUTER

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"it was great talking to you the other day. let's meet up together...im free (choose a day)."
 
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