"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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What should go on the very first phone call?

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Captain Obvious

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I've been wondering about this. Say I meet a girl at a club or party and get her #. Should I immediately try to set up a date the first time I call her? Or should I just call her and ask her what's up? Remember, this would only be the 2nd time I've talked to her in her life.

Also, if it's the 2nd one, what should I talk about without it being real awkward?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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DasaniWater

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In my Gfs pants??!?!?!

Why are you asking for advice if your in peoples gfs pants.... ?
 
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onyx

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DasaniWater said:
Why are you asking for advice if your in peoples gfs pants.... ?
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exactly...

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Join Date: Jul 2006


Location: In your girlfriend's pants



Posts: 7


shut the **** up or change ur location u chump
 
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Shiftkey

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It depends on where you are with the girl. If you got her phone number after only chatting for 5 minutes, you're going to need to build more attraction and rapport over the phone or she's just going to flake. Ideally you should'nt even need a phone number because you set a date while you first met her.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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WORKEROUTER

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"it was great talking to you the other day. let's meet up together...im free (choose a day)."
 
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