"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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What should go on the very first phone call?

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I've been wondering about this. Say I meet a girl at a club or party and get her #. Should I immediately try to set up a date the first time I call her? Or should I just call her and ask her what's up? Remember, this would only be the 2nd time I've talked to her in her life.

Also, if it's the 2nd one, what should I talk about without it being real awkward?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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In my Gfs pants??!?!?!

Why are you asking for advice if your in peoples gfs pants.... ?
 
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DasaniWater said:
Why are you asking for advice if your in peoples gfs pants.... ?
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exactly...

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Join Date: Jul 2006


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shut the **** up or change ur location u chump
 
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It depends on where you are with the girl. If you got her phone number after only chatting for 5 minutes, you're going to need to build more attraction and rapport over the phone or she's just going to flake. Ideally you should'nt even need a phone number because you set a date while you first met her.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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"it was great talking to you the other day. let's meet up together...im free (choose a day)."
 
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