You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Well, I guess I'm just into gothic chicks...maybe...?Randomer said:he already said he would rate her a 7... I'd give her about a 5 though, 5.5 slightly above average at the most, she looks so depressing though... =/ some ppl must find that style attractive tho so to each their own...
Yeah, Espi's right you guys... seriously that was really FVCKING LAME to compare that first picture (which had just her face) and then a professional model wearing a bikini, you are THAT desperate to prove that the girl in the first pic is ugly? I want you guys to give me a list of every girl you think is a 5, because this could get really interesting.Espi said:It's not easy to judge a girl who's wearing a loose-fitting sweatshirt and doesn't show a full-length pic. She's a 6. I suspect she could be a HB7, though...
You never know: She may have enormous t1tties and a nice body...or, she may be fat.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I don't like black girls eitherCod3r said:^ ^ Everyone has their own view of what 'attractive' is...
I don't find white women attractive at all, so hence it'd be hard for anyone to show me a picture of an "everyday" white female that I'd rate higher than a plain-jane 5... Same with 'everyday' black girls, don't think i eva seen a pure black girl that i'd ever rate over above a 3
But you throw an AZN/Phillipeno or a latina female in front of me and she'd have an easier time registering an 8 or 9... depends on ur type...
-Cod3r