Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Well, I guess I'm just into gothic chicks...maybe...?Randomer said:he already said he would rate her a 7... I'd give her about a 5 though, 5.5 slightly above average at the most, she looks so depressing though... =/ some ppl must find that style attractive tho so to each their own...
Yeah, Espi's right you guys... seriously that was really FVCKING LAME to compare that first picture (which had just her face) and then a professional model wearing a bikini, you are THAT desperate to prove that the girl in the first pic is ugly? I want you guys to give me a list of every girl you think is a 5, because this could get really interesting.Espi said:It's not easy to judge a girl who's wearing a loose-fitting sweatshirt and doesn't show a full-length pic. She's a 6. I suspect she could be a HB7, though...
You never know: She may have enormous t1tties and a nice body...or, she may be fat.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I don't like black girls eitherCod3r said:^ ^ Everyone has their own view of what 'attractive' is...
I don't find white women attractive at all, so hence it'd be hard for anyone to show me a picture of an "everyday" white female that I'd rate higher than a plain-jane 5... Same with 'everyday' black girls, don't think i eva seen a pure black girl that i'd ever rate over above a 3
But you throw an AZN/Phillipeno or a latina female in front of me and she'd have an easier time registering an 8 or 9... depends on ur type...
-Cod3r