Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Well, I guess I'm just into gothic chicks...maybe...?Randomer said:he already said he would rate her a 7... I'd give her about a 5 though, 5.5 slightly above average at the most, she looks so depressing though... =/ some ppl must find that style attractive tho so to each their own...
Yeah, Espi's right you guys... seriously that was really FVCKING LAME to compare that first picture (which had just her face) and then a professional model wearing a bikini, you are THAT desperate to prove that the girl in the first pic is ugly? I want you guys to give me a list of every girl you think is a 5, because this could get really interesting.Espi said:It's not easy to judge a girl who's wearing a loose-fitting sweatshirt and doesn't show a full-length pic. She's a 6. I suspect she could be a HB7, though...
You never know: She may have enormous t1tties and a nice body...or, she may be fat.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I don't like black girls eitherCod3r said:^ ^ Everyone has their own view of what 'attractive' is...
I don't find white women attractive at all, so hence it'd be hard for anyone to show me a picture of an "everyday" white female that I'd rate higher than a plain-jane 5... Same with 'everyday' black girls, don't think i eva seen a pure black girl that i'd ever rate over above a 3
But you throw an AZN/Phillipeno or a latina female in front of me and she'd have an easier time registering an 8 or 9... depends on ur type...
-Cod3r