That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Well, I guess I'm just into gothic chicks...maybe...?Randomer said:he already said he would rate her a 7... I'd give her about a 5 though, 5.5 slightly above average at the most, she looks so depressing though... =/ some ppl must find that style attractive tho so to each their own...
Yeah, Espi's right you guys... seriously that was really FVCKING LAME to compare that first picture (which had just her face) and then a professional model wearing a bikini, you are THAT desperate to prove that the girl in the first pic is ugly? I want you guys to give me a list of every girl you think is a 5, because this could get really interesting.Espi said:It's not easy to judge a girl who's wearing a loose-fitting sweatshirt and doesn't show a full-length pic. She's a 6. I suspect she could be a HB7, though...
You never know: She may have enormous t1tties and a nice body...or, she may be fat.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I don't like black girls eitherCod3r said:^ ^ Everyone has their own view of what 'attractive' is...
I don't find white women attractive at all, so hence it'd be hard for anyone to show me a picture of an "everyday" white female that I'd rate higher than a plain-jane 5... Same with 'everyday' black girls, don't think i eva seen a pure black girl that i'd ever rate over above a 3
But you throw an AZN/Phillipeno or a latina female in front of me and she'd have an easier time registering an 8 or 9... depends on ur type...
-Cod3r