"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I live in my mom's basement, and eat frozen pizzas all day while watching porn. Stay as far away from my advice as you can.
 

ImTheDoubleGreatest!

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I have felt everything. And more importantly, I have a few times become the person I had always dreamed of becoming. And everything I wanted to do I did, everything I wanted to happen, I made happen.

I don't always try to give advice though because no matter how much you may think you know, you can still always learn. And every situation is different and specific to that person/persons.
 

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What if all those women were fatties?
What about good looking but crazy as fvck? If crazy counts I'm a man hor. If it dont count I may be a born again virgin and gonna eBay my virginity and make some cashola..
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I'm qualified because of green dots LOL. Ok not really. I'm not a guru of any sort. I just give my opinion based on what I've seen and experienced.

Qualifications? Umm...

1. I went from a hopeless 28 yo virgin who never kissed a girl to eight lays, 23+ makeouts, and a few BJs. Those aren't big numbers by any stretch, but decent for such a very late start.

2. Many hours in the club

3. Many wasted $ on PUA stuff in the beginning.

4. I try to be one of the most honest posters who calls it as I see it. When I talk about looks, I am definitely speaking from experience. I went from a total nerd who was a like a 5.5 in looks to a very handsome low 8 in looks at my peak to a balding low 6 (optimistic lol) these days. I went from being ignored and friendzoned by women, to cute women approaching ME, and now back to being ignored plus a few eyerolls for good measure lol.

5. I don't give LTR advice because I'm not experienced at all in that area. I only comment on pickup and general interactions with women.

6. I'm retired from the game. Dance class and dances are my only interaction with women these days. I'm just here on SS for camaraderie, interesting discussions, and to share some stuff I learned along the way.
 

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I'm no expert! F*ck no. Analyst by profession, yes. Since I was kid I've always been intrigued oh how things work. My brain is an info sponge, if something sparks my interest I research it until I'm bored. I've been around the block & survied some crazy sh*t.

I've warned enough friends & they ignored my advice and got burned. Oh well.
 

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2005-2014 I slept with 15 women. All from sarging. Not a big number. But I think It's still not bad.
 

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sylvester the cat said:
This place can be quite intimidating for noobs what with all the advice being given. But how much of this advice is worth listening to and how much is it just for benefit of the advice-giver (reputation, ego, etc)

For my part i'm in my forties, had experience in relationships some serious, some not so serious. I've lived with two long term partners, been engaged but never married and had sexual encounters with over thirty women.

Given the advice we give can have life changing consequences What is your experience That qualifies you to tell others how it is?
I don't think experience matters that much. You could have tons of experience and have slept with over 40 women and still not give applicable and solid advice. You could just be flying by on your looks and bank account.

There are guys here that can sleep with hot women in 5 min, I personally don't like the advice they give the new guys. There are other guys here that don't have much experience yet they give solid advice.

It all depends on the person asking and seeking it. If the advice given connects on a personal and emotional level so you can make changes for the better, that's all that matters.
 

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Someone who bangs hookers is more qualified than a guy who has slept with 50 average looking women.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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mustfirstregister said:
2005-2014 I slept with 15 women. All from sarging. Not a big number. But I think It's still not bad.
At age 100 damn old man you spend all your AARP money on Viagra or get it up el naturale?! Lmfao!! :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
 

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Eternal_water said:
Well if you've had sex with over 30 women then I'd say your "qualified" to give advice.
I honestly don't think this qualifies. I have had sex with over 30 women as well, I'm 22 and I don't consider myself a PUA. I think it goes deeper than that. A close friend of mine has had sex with two women and he could get women a whole lot easier than I, but he's extremely picky. No doubt though he's a womanizer, has the looks, the attitude, "swagger". I have more of the social circle, I get the lay, she tells her friend who then wants it, move on down the line, etc.
 

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Trump said:
I don't think experience matters that much. You could have tons of experience and have slept with over 40 women and still not give applicable and solid advice. You could just be flying by on your looks and bank account.
^ This. You can't "teach" rich or good looking lol. There's obviously nothing wrong with encouraging guys to improve their looks/money/status, but please don't think that the guy with 100 lays knows some magic trick that he can "teach" to an average guy so he can get the same results. It doesn't work that way. Yes, you can definitely learn something from those guys, but understand the limitations and be realistic.

Notwithstanding, I still think it is important for some guys with large lay counts to post because every guy needs to know how the other reality works and how even the most "difficult" women can be easy for the "right" guy.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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